like how you can bend over backwards (literally) for weeks and then you say you want to talk about something and they fly off the handle telling you how THEIR so "unappreciated" WHEN 9 times out of 10 when they mess up you dont even say anything, you let it go, dont even expect an appology (cause its not like youll ever get one) and worship the ground THEY walk on, and if you ask for a little in return? "OMG your so high-maintenence!" WTF!?!?!??!?
2007-05-29 13:04:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FYI he's thirty friggin two, yeah but acts like a damn 2 year old
2007-05-29 13:13:11 · update #1
The Very root of men's hostilety towards women stems from the fact that Women control acces to what men want most in the world, wich is SEX. The behavior you are experincing is mens' attempts at undermining your self confidence as a woman to such a degree that you will give them acces to your sexuality out of a desperate need for acceptance from them. If you confront them with this, they will only get more hostile, and perhaps violent, so, save yourself the trouble, and do not let on that you know. Just let this information guide you in your selection of men. The ones that will cause you the least grief are the ones that accept that you hold all the power and appreciate any attention you give. Do NOT mistake these men for "wimps" The real wimps are the ones you have been dealing with, that try to blame YOU for their position of weakness in the world. True bravery is a man that accepts his strength, and his weakness, but yet persaveres. These men are rare, but If you know what behaviors to look for, you can find one, and be happy. Leave the jerks for those women that buy into the male created propaganda.
2007-05-29 13:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by ibdastevie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats just the way guys are, they're all the same, so far! There must be a few out there that aren't like that. Depending on the age group too most teenage boys are definetly like this right through to the mid 20's. I ignore it now when my bf starts like that theres nothing else to do about it as they dont think they are in the wrong at all
2007-05-29 13:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by n4w05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature. My parents do the same thing - I don't say a word about how they can't follow their own rules, but they nag me every minute, and if I should turn and tell them they're hypocrites then they yell at me for talking back. This guy isn't paying attention to you - try to explain to him that you're not perfect, but he's no angel from heaven either. Relationships are compromises, and if he's not willing to make one, kick him out of your life.
2007-05-29 13:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are still babies --- it takes a long time and a lot of pain on both sides for us to mature and then while its not too late the ladies have formed an unbreakable opinion about us and its very difficult to get the chance to show that we have changed --- best wishes
2007-05-29 13:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we are all dickheads, and its good that you realize that early in life. We are all very egocentric and love nothing more than pleasing ourselves.
2007-05-29 13:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for the generalities, either you are looking for those kinda guys or you cant find a book at a library..
booma boom
2007-05-29 13:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by neff8684 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True. Dunno why.
2007-05-29 13:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋