are u still spank otk ?

Question

well im my mom came home from work and i gave my graded papers and for every f i get she spanks so before she spank me she told me to lift up her pants and unzip her her boots and told me to get the paddle,and her blac socks so i got the paddle and lowered my pants and layed across her knee so i recieved th paddle 3 times

Answer 1

This is a hard question to answer. I recall receiving spankings if I brought home a "C". I did not like going to the tree and getting my own switches. Nor did I like going to get my mom's strap. Usually, I received more than 'three paddles'. BUT - I never brought home any more "C",s no "D"''s and never any "F's. Now, having said all that - as a parent, I did not spank my daughter if she brought home any bad grades. My position is this - if a child is bringing home grades that are not welcomed in your house, then the parents need to sit down with the child and discuss what the problem is. Too many children do not understand their assignments and often when they get home, forget the directions, or how to solve the problems or remember what to write. I suggest that you 1) make sure you have some kind of agenda or book that you can write down your assignments. 2) Make sure your teacher explains what you have to do to your satisfaction. If you don't understand - ask the teacher again at another time (away from class). 3) Go home and sit with your mother and have her help you - if she can. 4) Make sure you receive papers back with grades on it so you can go back and make corrections on answers that you did not get correct. 5) Make sure your teacher provides you a 'progress report'. This is a document to show how you are doing BEFORE report cards are issued. If you are still making low grades, your mother has a responsibility to go to the school and consult with your teachers to see what they can collectively do to help you. Teachers, parents, counselors - tutors - all of these people should be in place at your school to help you succeed. If you are consistently getting low grades, there could be something else involved. Do you wear glasses? Do you see the board well? Do you hear well? There are tests involved that can ensure you are at the level you should be and if there are problems - the school and its administrators are there to support your needs. I am sorry you got paddled, but please make sure your mom is involved in your school work and can help you.

Answer 2

Sweetie, it sounds like you are young. I would tell a teacher or an adult who cares about you. Make sure the person you tell is someone that won't tell your mom but can call children services for you if they need to. Also do you have marks? If you have marks for over 24 hours, it is abuse and children services needs to know. Just because children services gets called, it doesn't mean they will take you out of the home. A lot of times, parents are told to take parenting classes to learn different ways to be a parent.

Answer 3

you didnt say how old you were, and you didnt say if you were male or female. Technically, it is abuse, however if the spanks are not hard, then there would be little case in the matter.

Why is she asking you to unzip HER boots??? This puzzles me. Is she touching you on you private parts??? if so, you need to walk away when she wants to spank you.

Answer 4

that is technically abuse, and no I am not, and was not bc my father and mother know thats against the law and theres other ways to make kids get good grades