they had a fight she broke up with him for a week during that time he met someone else and he told her after they got back together again he try to prove to her that he wasn't joking by picking up the phone and call the other girl she saw her phone # and call the other girl the other lied that she was married so she thought that he was just joking and took him back he told her that he will break up with that girl for her then later on he asked her why did you call my girl friend and was upset that she called her and dumped her after they went out why would he be upset when he was going to break up with the other for her in the first place? he said if you didn't call her I'll still be with you.he find out that she called the other because the other confronted him when he was breaking up with her.why the other girl lied?How will my friend handle this situation if they both call her?
2007-05-29 10:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This boy was trying to have his cake and eat it too.. your friend should count herself lucky that she doesn't have to deal with his lying behind anymore. She shouldn't have to fight for her boyfriend's attention, to get him away from another girl. She deserves a guy that wants only her. Tell her to go out and find a better guy that will make her wonder what she ever saw in this loser in the firs place!
2007-05-29 10:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sweety! You didn't lose him like this... Remember how hard it can be for guys to use their feelings. The truth is that he really might not have a clue what to say or do when you need it. Don't think he lacks feelings, or that he doesn't care about you, just because he doesn't know what to do to comfort you... Try to understand his point of view as well, and try to tell him exactly what you need from him (like physically 'I need a hug' or 'I need you to ask me more about my problem here', cut it out for him). After the fight is over, let it breath... Give him a bit space, take some space for yourself... and then when you're both calm, try to make up...
2016-05-21 01:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was protecting her heart and her own feelings. She just need to tell that other married lady that she had him first. Also, that she has been in love with him in whatever months or years they have been together. It seems the boyfriend likes to have his cake and eat it too. Your friend shouldn't have to go through all this if he really loves her. Its too much on her and she needs to asked herself if he is worth all this heartache and he needs to be up front with her and tell her the truth if he loves her or not.
don't let your friend be a trampoline for any man. He can pay for it if he needs to get some.
Be a friend for your friend and tell her to move on. She shouldn' t have to go through all this for a man. There is so many men out there for her.
2007-05-29 10:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was confusing but i think i got it, he might have been mad because he was playing both of them. or maybe he just didnt want the other girl to know he got back with your friend. he sounds like a loser so i think your friend shouldnt worry about it to much and find a real guy that isnt such a jerk! tell her good luck! :)
2007-05-29 10:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up wit the boyfriend. He is a player and just using them both...
True boyfriends do not do that to you.
2007-05-29 11:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if I could read your question I could answer. It made no sense and lacked cohesion, try writing as opposed to writing like your speaking.
2007-05-29 10:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change her phone number. She is better off not having anything to do with either of them.
2007-05-29 10:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok now what? She just needs to let buddy go
2007-05-29 10:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as your best friend loves him you NEED to tell her to let him go.. he isn't a good guy at all if u need additional advises email me
2007-05-29 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋