My "ex" girlfriend decided to dump me last weekend she told me we needed space. So I gave her space. We talked last night and she said there's nothing to say she wanted more space then just a week and she would consider taking me back if I left her alone till Friday.
Today she text messaged me while I was at work saying Hi. I said why are you talking to me? You wanted space...she said "eh You've left me alone enough what would you like to talk about?" I told her I was busy. She told me she wanted to make love again sometime. She told me she also still loves me and that being away from me makes her miss me.
so i asked her...so then what are we?
and she said "not together"
and I said then why were you saying all of that just now?
she told me she didn't know why and that she did not want a relationship right now.
I love this girl to death but I'm not going to be played around like that...I'm so confused!
there is another girl interested in me and I've been spending time with her
2007-05-29 09:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviosuly she does not appreciate you and from experience you cant make because of one person who is playing you and taking you for a spin, make you miss out on something great. You need to toughen up and talk to her and if she still is not there for you, then you need to let go and move on with your life. yes it may take a while but do it one day at a time and soon enough you will realize that you better without someone who use and refuse you as if you dont have any feelings. i am sorry to hear about that and hope to see if you are doing better.
2007-05-29 09:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you think YOU'RE confused, her answers are clearly WAY MORE CONFUSED than you...
I say give her some space alright...about a month of it...Then see if she's still interested and have a heart to heart talk. This relationship is sounding very lopsided right now - I think you should require a little space until she gets her head screwed on straight...date others for a bit, as friends, not looking for anything special. Time is the best indicator of whether she's is meant to truly be your significant other.
Grace
2007-05-29 09:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is probably just used to you and the attention you give/gave her so now it's hard for her to be without it. She is the one that is confused - you shouldn't be. It's obvious she doesn't want a relationship yet she wants you so to be in her life cause that is what's comfortable for her. Be the one to stand your ground. Give her exactly what she asked for in the first place and ignore her COMPLETELY and focus on your new girl. BELIEVE ME !!! She will eventually choose to take you or leave you because it will drive her nuts to know you actually moved on. If she chooses to leave it wasn't meant to be. I am a girl myself that is the only thing that would get me to get back out with a guy if I was ever to be in her situation.
2007-05-29 09:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Girly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually after reading all of your details, I think you are a lot less confused than you give yourself credit for.
You're doing fine, good job on the self-care, so keep up the good work, you don't appear to be acting like a confused person, so give this new girl more of a chance & eventually things will appear a lot more clear to you. :)
2007-05-29 09:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should move on! Sounds like shes got some growing up too do!
Good-Luck
2007-05-29 10:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the other girl!! this girl is just trying to play games with you and all she wants from you is sex, so, shes not worth it anymore.
2007-05-29 09:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by BAMBI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her you are a one woman man and you want her to be dedicated to you, dont let this woman play on your heartsrings, ur not a puppet
2007-05-29 09:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the ties...don't talk to her, don't IM her....what for...It's over...move on....
2007-05-29 09:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get played
2007-05-29 09:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by sexymama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋