I meet a guy. My heart says he is cute and nice and has many things i like. My head says he is younger than me and wont want to settle down even he says so and i do not want to force him into this either. Also he requires some personality that i don't have ( e.g. I joke on many things and he thinks i am a bit overboard).
Should i stop trying or should i give it a go- we just meet for a month and only been to a couple of dates..
2007-05-29 09:46:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To listen to your heart, use a stethoscope. I have no idea what you use to listen to your head. Headphones?
2007-05-29 09:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in this case I would say listen to your head...I think you need to move on b/c he's obviously not 110% interested...if you want to settle down with someone make sure he is totally into you otherwise it'll never work b/c more than likely he will be looking elsewhere in the meantime of you guys mingling and he will end up leading you on to think there is somehting there when in reality he knows there is not and then you will be left with a broken heart...let him go and just be friends thats it no more...if you can't be just friends then just leave him alone
2007-05-29 16:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One's heart simply pumps blood (and in the case of us Americans, collects cholesterol). Love desire and logical thinking both come from one's brain, simply different parts of one's brain.
I would suggest you "give it a go" before you make a definitive conclusion.
2007-05-29 16:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be yourself and not someone else, who may be trying to impress him. Give it more time before you decide...people change their minds you know - so don't make yours up BEFORE you're really even INTO a relationship. Who knows, it could go kaput in another 3 dates or you two could wind up having more in common than you now believe...
Sincerely,
Grace
2007-05-29 16:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2007-05-29 16:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Brianna M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Your heart is what falls in love with someone...not your head.
2007-05-29 16:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say its not gonna hurt to date the guy to see if its gonna work out or not...if you date him and it doesnt work out than great move on and find someone else and if you date him and it turns out to be great then thats good too...so its a win win situation either way you look at it...either he is for you or he aint but how will you know unless you try him out
2007-05-29 16:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart. if it doesnt work out then he is young and can move on. you sound like you like to have fun and will be able to find somebody new, or you already have good friends that will have a good time with you.
have fun.
2007-05-29 16:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS listen to your heart. it is always right. and if one day your heart knows it isn't working out, it's okay because you know you gave it a chance and there is nothing to regret for that.
2007-05-29 16:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are ready to change who you are just so you can keep him around. Not a good start for a relationship.
2007-05-29 16:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋