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2007-05-29 09:32:04 · 21 answers · asked by moco-frap 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Tao says when you do not trust people it makes them "untrustworthy"
What I believe is to give everyone a starting ground of trust. Then they either notch up or down by their actions.
When you meet a new man do not distrust him because he's a man. Simply give him the same standard trust as anyone else.
The problem comes when people give too much trust too soon. They throw their hearts to people they dont even know. Why should you all encompassingly trust Prince Charming? You probably shouldnt. Whats more he probably thinks your crazy for trusting him unconditionally and throwing you glass slippers at him.
2007-05-29 09:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by stardawned 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and here is why.
1. You get in the habit of generalizing and generalizing is never always true (alright almost never always true)
2. You will probably miss out on a great relationship with someone you could trust.
3. Always thinking the worst of people leads to a pessimistic, negative, grumpy attitude that no body wants to be around.
2007-05-29 09:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to trust yourself FIRST before you will have the to ability to trust anyone including men. Yes there is a bad apple in every barrel. I think that you should not let the man who f*%ked it up for every other man you meet influence you to make assumptions about the new or next man you meet, try letting the next man gain your trust by earning it (u figure out what he should do to earn it by yourself). Everyone knows or should know "TRUST IS GAINED NOT GIVEN".
2007-05-29 09:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by everydayihustle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of jerks you should never trust; there are also some good guys that you would trust.
2007-05-29 09:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by espms290 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a few good ones out there. you just have to dig deep to find them. make sure you wait until you know it's a person you can really trust before actually trusting him with important decisions and information about you.
2007-05-29 09:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men cant be trusted, but you haven't found the right guy yet, your soul mate is out there looking for you right this instant , i know this because i thought i couldent trust wemon for a while for myself but i learned whats right and wrong
2007-05-29 09:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by hero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear, not all men are the same,and it also goes with some women too.what would think if no man would have anything to do with you.i know some guys can be jerks,but not all of us are like that.sounds like some guy hurt you really bad,but dont judge all of us,because of just a few.
2007-05-29 09:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends,
if you're ok with being a lier and not having a true and loving relationship.
you'll end up trusting someone thought, be afraid, and may end it before it gets serious.
if you never trust someone, that person wont trust you.
you have to trust someone to fully love for someone.
if you dont trust them, you cant be trustful to them because they'd ask do you love me? and you'd be like yes (maybe can i trust you?)
2007-05-29 09:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by mylan-sama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By not trusting every man, your missing out on meeting the right one. Give them a chance.
2007-05-29 09:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You only need to trust one. Finding him is the problem.
2007-05-29 09:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by TheEconomist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋