The other night is worrying me My boyfriend and I were over at his parents and I walked in on a convo about me welll what seemed to be about me. He swears that it wasnt but I really still do think it was. I have recently been diagnoised with anxiety and my counceler has told me I need to include him in this process of getting better. But it is hard when I feel like I am annoying him. And i feel I want to stay away from his mum for a little while. Should I approch him about this again eventhough he wasnt happy when I brought it up last time? I also would love to hear how he is feeling so i want him to tell me instead of other people even if it hurts me a little.
2007-05-29 09:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, your illness must be over powering you. Don't you worry too much because it will just adds up to your illness. Second, you are just being paranoid of them talking about you. Don't think negative of them about you. Third, get well soon.
2007-05-29 09:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by C A M S ™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a 'chill pill' dear. It's perfectly okay for your guy to discuss you with his parents in their own house, and he doesn't need your permission or have to tell you about it. You would do best to pretend you didn't hear anything to preserve their privacy.
Get into an exercise regimen, get a small dog and walk it every day, or start volunteering with children.
Do something to improve your patience and reduce your sensitivity, since you seem to be too self-absorbed and prickly at this time.
2007-05-29 09:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how long together. Ignore the convo, maybe they are just concerned and hope you will get better.
If you have social anxiety maybe paxcil will help? Try to not worry so much what other think.
Take care of yourself first.
2007-05-29 09:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by cathoratio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it slide this time.. but play it by ear from now on.
If he truly was talking about you chances are he'll do it again... and eventually it will be within your ear range and you can make a more aware decision.. rather than just acting on an impulse.
Don't throw away a good thing.
2007-05-29 09:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by elle.dlux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason of dating somone like that where you meet and get to know the family is for love. So if he gets all angry just because of anxiety then he does not truly love you. Someone who loves you would not care about little problems such as anxiety. and yes you should talk to him and confront him with your problems... if your relationship is meant to be it will all work out for the best. =]
2007-05-29 09:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your anxiety is giving you the gut feeling and you should get over it. And, why would they be talking about you when you're around? Chill out.
2007-05-29 09:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by law6758 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this to yourself. This guy is not good for you. He probably is at least partly responsible for your condition. He is not supporting you when you need it and you gut instinct is telling you, warning you about things you might prefer to ignore. Do not ignor your instincts Do get another boyfriend.
2007-05-29 09:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this case, your gut feelings are betraying you. This should be worked through your councilor.
Good luck to you.
2007-05-29 09:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask your boyfriend if he trusts you! then lay it all down and tell him what you're thinking about that convorsation!
If he doesn't say anyhing then....ask nicely....If he gets mad ask him why he's mad! Hope I could help!
2007-05-29 09:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find someone who will show concerns and truly care for u
2007-05-29 09:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋