I'm in love with this guy...but he's gay. How can I turn him on to women again? I've tried seducing him and stuff...but he just pushes me out of the way to watch Will and Grace. HELP!
I also might add that I live with him...and that one night he got drunk and we slept together and I'm now pregnant...not too far along though.
2007-05-29 09:05:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
you cant but Jesus can. Some will claim its in the genes but if it was they would have died out in one generation-due to selective non reproduction.
many that once chose the gay life style-which comes according to Romans 1 from unthankfulness and worshiping the created rather than the creator-can rechose and be saved in Jesus-but you cant help someone else till you help yourself in this matter.
this is how I got changed=know the Jesus who offers heaven instead of torment forever in hell weeping wailing and gnashing teeth forever for rejecting the salvation Jesus offers=Matthew chapter 12 and Revelations 19-22 the agony of hell and the joy of heaven described, along with the sowing of the sead of the Word of God. This is how I learned the easy way=
Jesus is the unique only begotten son of God, John 3:16 who loves us unconditionally.
truth in the Messiah =He knocks on every heart-to come in and deliver even from one lie and be our personal Messiah, savior and best friend. Revelation 3:19&20
he was predicted all the way back to Adam and Eve Genesis 3:15 chapter 3 verse 15
and 700 years before he came perfectly predicted=
Isaiah 52:13-53:12 "All we like sheep have gone astray. He will lay down his life as a lamb to make atonement for our sins."
Isaiah 9:6 "Unto you a child will be born, a Son is given, and he is almighty God, the prince of peace." Jesus is God-
free will in salvation is the offer of the Messiah Jesus for our soul to us, yet all in his knowledge=Life is offered -yet death and passing to everlasting life in hell and heaven is a reality too.
Do not condemn a doctor for offering you the cure for the disease that would kill you! Jesus paid the ultimate price to die for our sins, so we can believe-had these Scriptures Revelation 3:19&20 Salvation & chapters 19-22 of death and hell, been given without the offer of his salvation and the joy of heaven life and death would be hopeless.
Messiah Jesus is my savior and best friend, and that helps me to share his salvation that others may believe too, and be rescued as I was from the judgement to hell.
John 3= repented of sin and got born again, asking him into my heart to be my friend, amen.
I prayed "Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and be my friend, help me, amen."
He said "I love you and knock on your heart door to come in, deliver from sin when you repent (-even of one lie), and ask me in to be your friend." Revelation 3:19&20
what an honor and joy to know Jesus , now my Messiah and best friend.
prayin for you too, David
2007-05-29 09:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Well you ask the question as if you -wanted- to have a guy try to turn you gay. Obviously, your here asking the question it means something to you, so apparently someone did get through to you, and either your asking the question or begging for someone to tell you how you can magically begin liking guys. I know plenty of gay guys that are beginning to force themselves to like girls, i don't know why, but they just want a wife and kids even though their completely homosexual. I'd say the same can be said for the opposite way, that maybe you could force yourself to like males. I mean, your still getting pleasure, just from the same sex ;), and who knows, you may find a guy that you think is attractive. Also, just from experience.. I talked to a 'straight' guy, who still claims to be straight, even after we 'broke up', after all the cuddling/I love you/fun boyfriend/girlfriend stuff (minus sex). So..
2016-05-21 00:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you got yourself into this situation. You can not turn a gay man straight. Only the Lord can do that. You need to move on and try to figure out what you and this guy is going to do about the child that's on the way.
2007-05-29 09:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Faith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, if all this is true, then you have only yourself to blame.
You knew he was gay and there is no way to change that.
Now, if he wants to continue to live with you and care for the baby, that is one thing, but you will have to understand that at some point he will find someone he loves. Think real hard about that.
Do you want to raise this baby all by yourself?
This whole thing sounds like a made for TV movie.
2007-05-29 10:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by meg3f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father is gay. He married my mother and had three kids together. Their friendship was ruined by his denial of his identity. Homosexuality isn't a choice. Whether you believe that or not, not matter how hard you try, it's not going to work out for the loving relationship you seek. My mother did not know my father was gay until just earlier this year -- she had never understood why their relationship was so empty, because she knew he loved her. Just not the same way she loved him.
2007-05-29 09:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he exclusively homosexual, you cannot change him. If he is bi-sexual, he needs to see in you the love of his life and choose to be with you exclusively. One who is drunk is not one who freely wills to do what he does while drunk. Did you seduce him while he was drunk?
If he claims to be gay and his primary desire is for males, you ought to bail out now while you've got the chance.
2007-05-29 09:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sebastian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to turn a gay man straight. They are just not turned on by women. Are you sure he is gay and not bi?
2007-05-29 09:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Susie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him. And what difference does it make that you're not too far along. Is that like being a little pregnant?
2007-05-29 09:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't do anything until he repents of his sin of disbelieve! When he asks the Lord Jesus to be his Savior, the Lord will begin a work in him that will include his turning away from his sin of homosexuality!
2007-05-29 09:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by †Lawrence R† 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think my neighbor is gay and has a kid. It is not too unusual for gay men to marry and have children. However, you are in danger of catching diseases from his other lovers.
You should not take that chance with your life.
2007-05-29 09:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, All I can think of is to con him into being hypnotized. And maybe that will chase that disgusting spirit out of him if not you may have to have the courage to cut his penis off. Good Luck. And may God bless you spiritually.
2007-05-29 09:24:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋