How can you do it without the guy knowing its the first time? - ( I never want any guy to have the satisfaction of knowing hes the first when hes had previous lovers) What does it feel like? What do you feel like after - emotionally?
2007-05-29 07:39:58 · 25 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont report me for sayin this but, take a penis shaped object like a banana or some crap and just masturbate like crazy watchin porn, this way when he sticks his wang wang in your hang hang your spaceous **** will be a lil use to it and wont hurt as much, and watch the porn so you know what to expect, watch basic stuff, not crazy brutal stuff, doubt he's gonna do that....but oh forgot, how old are you? emotionally depends on who you are, by your question, im guessing you might think just cuz u ****** that means your special to him, wrong, guys just want sex, thats usually it.....hope i helped
oh but one more thing completely opposite of this is, some chicks, it dont hurt a thing, if your lucky like them kinda chicks you dont gotta worry bout no pain, no cover up, just act really into it
2007-05-29 07:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It hurt like hell, I bled a lot and I had tears rollin down my eyes, it wasn't the best memory I have. Another thing, if I could turn back the hands of time boy would I, I wouldv'e never lost it to the person that I did. Afterwards, I felt sort of stupid that I had lost the most precious thing in my life to a low-life. It's honestly a big decision that people don't think about.
2007-05-29 23:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time can be very emotional . After you might be in kind of a shock ! It is a big part of you that you'll never get back!! My best advice that I can give you is make sure it's the right guy to give it to , make sure your ready , and DON'T put presser on yourself during that moment. Your supposed to enjoy sex . Relax and do what comes naturally. The last thing I have to tell you is what you think sex is going to be like probably won't be like at all !!!
2007-05-29 14:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by kristinahusnick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well when i first lost my virginity it hurt it didn't hurt too bad but it did hurt somewhat. the guy that i did it with was also a virgin so i did kind of had to tell him that it was going to be the first time that i would be engaged in something sexually. i felt pretty normal afterward i wasn't too sad or depressed. i wasn't sad because the guy that i had lost it with was the guy that i liked and was the guy that i wanted to do it with. after we did it for the first time, we ended up dating for about a year or so. so i guess it wasn't too bad.
2007-05-29 23:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by anabel. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok-----you cant cover up the fact it is your first time! its not possible,unless you dont have sex! Get yourself a sex-education book from your local library and read up...it will tell you what you need to know.
As for what it feels like---it hurts.For some,just a little,for some alot!
emotionally---varies depending on each person,and the person they are intimate with
2007-05-29 14:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, it hurt the first time and I bled a little, but emotionally, I wish I had waited because I knew what I did was wrong.
2007-05-29 14:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by Caleb's Mom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you can wait until you are married and it will be both of your first time. I know that is a rariety these days, but wouldn't that be wonderful?
It sounds like you are young, so just please live life and enjoy it. Sex is so much better after marriage and so much less complicated.
Pray about it, He answers all prayers. Good luck to you!
2007-05-29 14:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Rick O 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One it is painful and 2 he probably will know that he is the 1st because you might get scared or it will just be super tight.
2007-05-29 14:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy just go with the flow most guys cant even tell if the girl is a virgin or not
2007-05-29 14:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if you don't say it, he'll know when you bleed and how tight you are. So what if he has a lot of lovers...then find someone who hasn't, I'm 19 and only done it once.
2007-05-29 14:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋