Because i am easy going,, or would u love me more?
2007-05-29 07:22:13 · 27 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would never "screw you over"!!!!!
2007-05-29 15:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a easy going kind-of-girl but would not let my boyfriend have everything his way - I have a standard and a reputation to uphold. I believe since your so easy-going, girls would only use you as boy-toy, see you as a playboy and would not take you serious in the "love relationship" area. I'm sure alot of girls would screw you over because your easy going (maybe you should define easy going) and they get what they want - because it definitely has nothing to do with love -
2007-05-29 07:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that I never "screw people over" but how you are treated may well depend on your definition of "easy going". If you are a doormat, then it's likely you'll be screwed over or just left out of boredom as women tend to like guys with a spine and opinion (although some like guys that only say "yes dear").
If you just mean that you don't easily anger, but do have boundaries, and opinions, and don't bend over backwards to make unreasonable concessions for her, then "easy going" sounds like a more positive quality.
However, you being easy going or not, is no guarantee someone won't do you wrong. Some people just tend to think of themselves before anyone else, no matter how fabulous that other person is.
2007-05-29 07:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm and easy going is one thing, but if you never express an opinion or preference of your own, then you come across as a person who is so desperate for a friend that you would put up with anything. It has been my experience that if you don't have enough of a spine to stand up for yourself, then the average girl would not be attracted to you -- because you are acting like a girl, not a guy. It may seem counter intuitive, but if you never stand up for yourself, then people lose respect for you (even if they are too polite to say so to your face).
Besides, it sounds like you are trying too hard to be liked, by trying to be TOO nice. The kind of behavior that that guys think of as kindness, women often seem to interpret either as manipulation, desperation, or weakness. It is OK to be a little selfish sometimes. After all, you have legitimate wants and needs too, and shouldn't be afraid to speak up for yourself if you want a healthy two way relationship.
Balance is the key here; don't be a totally selfish jerk, but don't be a pushover, either.
You probably don't want to come across as someone who is so desperate for a friend that you would let anyone do anything to you in order to be liked. I noticed that most women do not seem to be attracted to a guy with no self-confidence and no self-respect.
2007-05-29 07:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never screw a guy over, but personally I would want things to be a little more equal than me always getting what I want. A relationship should be give and take from both people, not all give or all take from one or the other. I think it's really sweet of you to be so considerate of whomever you would be dating, but be careful because there are many girls who will take advantage of that kindness and screw you over. I wouldn't wish that on anyone because I know how it feels.
2007-05-29 09:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I personally would not screw over my guy...but there are a lot of women out there who would take advantage of you and screw you over if you let them have everything their way...and on the other hand there are still some good women left in the world who would not.
Hopefully you are a good enough judge of character to tell the difference in players and honest people.
be cool...
2007-05-29 07:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let anyone convince you to do something you don't want to. Sorry but there are a lot and I mean a lot of people who look for people to take advantage of and 'the nice guy' is a prime target.
Being accommodating and letting someone have their way sounds like a great way to endear yourself to someone but you have to reign in that impulse. It almost never ends well. Treat her as an equal and if she has any self respect she will want to be treated that way.
2007-05-29 07:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by elurle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what type of girl you're talking to. A self centered, manipulative girl will take advantage of your easy-going nature. While other girls might love you more. Be careful of what type of girl you get involved with.
2007-05-29 07:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never screw over the man that I love. EVER.
When I love someone, I love them with my entire soul. There is no way I COULD love you any more or less. (if you were mine of course).
2007-05-29 07:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by jade j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
letting people have their way to a point is ok. but you put your foot down sometimes girls like that. every girl secertly wants
a bad boy, just not all the time
2007-05-29 07:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by alleykat1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was easy going and I got trampled on by women who were selfish. Be careful.
2007-05-29 07:26:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋