2007-05-29 06:02:50 · 7 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The American dating seen is very sad. We all think we can approach love as a sport and then we wonder why we are in so much pain over misunderstandings, breakups, cheating, dishonesty, and multiple love interests.
Once we realize that romance and relationships are not for our pleasure, we might not be in so much pain. We would be in less pain because relationships would not be failing as often as they do because the relationships would first be built upon a _trusting_ friendship that could never fail. However, this requires the guy have yours and not his best interest at heart. Otherwise, how is it possible for you to trust him? Unfortunately, guys that are trustworthy (worthy of trust) are far and few in-between.
The guys that use women as playthings rather then the precious treasure they are, is the primary source of heartache! Next to blame is the woman who goes after the fantasy of having a guy who really loves her and will make her feel soooo gooood!
My advice is to reserve your love for the man who has proven himself through the years and with whom you have built a mutual trust. Otherwise you will have to take the risk of not waiting for the friendship to be built between you and then you will suffer pain when he lets you down.
Btw, from experience of what I see in others and what I did myself, premarital sex totally _kills_ trust between friends. I know this goes totally against today’s approach. That’s because selfless and selfish are the antithesis of one another.
2007-06-04 14:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ear GW 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok..are you sure your in love with your crush? A crush can sometimes feel like love. He probably kept it from you because he probably knows that you have a crush on him. He has a girlfriend so there is nothing you can do. If it is a crush, the chances are that you will get over it.
2007-06-05 22:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by m.axine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him because he has a gf find someone else and in a couple of months if you still like him and he doesn't have a gf you should go for him if you haven't found someone else yet but don't Wait for him because that's wasting your time.
2007-06-06 03:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on.
First of all, he has a GF.
Second, he lied by omission about his GF. He's not worth it.
Find someone else
2007-05-29 06:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have love confused with chemical reaction. Move on. He obviously is not loyal and you should do better.
2007-06-05 14:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truely speaking
find some one else
world is full of those
don't waste ur time
2007-06-06 03:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by single_minded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him in bed
2007-06-06 02:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cpalms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋