Have you really forgiven him/her if your incapable of loving again?
2007-05-29 02:50:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first of all we all need time to get over a loved one and once you have forgiven your ex over what they did i think the difficult step is to forgive yourself for letting yourself to be on the recieving end of it and letting someone break your heart it is not that your incapable of loving again i think it just so hard to take that step again as you think your falling into the same trap again but the best you can do is to take it real slow if that person does truely love you they will respect your wishes otherwise don't go there
2007-05-29 03:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Spud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..all is forgiven..we remain great friends.
I don't think I'm incapable of loving again. Let's say I'm very cautious. It is my own heart that does this. Doesn't have all that much to do with him.
I passed through this life with him for over 20 years..I am now on a new path. :)
2007-05-29 10:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...My heart and my mind was taken advantage of in a most miserably inventive mentally calculated way really...my ex lover has now cheated on me physically and mentally so many God awful times...I won't allow her to come back to me as "my lover". I've forgiven her for her own evil minded ways and her own deceptive behaviors...but she hasn't really honestly forgiven herself yet...and that my friends makes a huge difference when it comes to the laws of attraction with anyone. She's conflicted mentally within herself really...(don't ask me why though...ask her!) and that stuff I have no power or control of....she does though. Only she owns the rights to her own satisfactions and dis satisfactions...not me....hence her cheating lying ways and behaviors..honestly! I didn't ask her for perfection and total loyalty. Instead I got dis respectfulness and mentally anxiety riddled behaviors served up to me unfortunately. How unbelievable really. She should have come to me with a huge WARNING LABEL attached to her forehead otherwise! (just venting anger)
2007-05-29 10:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not forgive, if you are still angry and hold any kind of revenge thoughts, means you still care. When you move on and you stop loving your ex, then you do not care either way of taking revenge or anger. Forgiving someone is the first step to recovery from a broken heart.
2007-05-29 09:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One bf I had whom I loved very much cheated on me. I never forgave him, and it took me years to recover and be able to fall in love again. If I were to see him again I'd probably punch him out.
2007-05-29 09:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive him. but dont forget.
meaning....don't hold a grudge about it and be bitter, but at the same time, don't allow it to happen again: he hurt you and although you forgive him and wish him well, you just don't want to get hurt again by him..let him go do that to someone else.
2007-05-29 09:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let bygones be bygones.
I forgive him because I believed it it easier than to live life without him.
Anyways, he's just human and he's not perfect.
2007-05-29 10:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do forgive them but that don't mean i am going to take them back
2007-05-29 09:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have before, but the only thing it resulted in is my heart being broken again.
so, no. i don't forgive.
2007-05-29 10:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say no, i thought i did untill i spoke to her and i realized that i was not, or mayb i was just jelouse...i cant spell 2day..burned to many brain cells over he weekend...lol sorry
2007-05-29 13:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by salsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋