I jus feel like am not very good in bed can you please advise me on things which make a man feel it.
2007-05-29 02:18:45 · 5 answers · asked by mbix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, what you've just described is a self-fulfilling phrophecy - by that I mean you think you're not very good in bed - so you prbably are'nt.
Remember the most important organ you posess in experiencing sex, and giving pleasure to your partner is your brain.
The 2nd most important "tool" in your sexual arsenal is how you use your sexuality and the skill with which your are able to manipulate your ability to use your god-given femine wiles and sensuality. Seduction is all about the promise of something naughty and enticing to come, the suggestion of forbidden delights to come and the anticipation of deliscious sexual pleasure.
You need to practice your movies dear. You need to feel as slinky as an alley cat in heat, as liquid in movement and as limber as a snake. You need to give off a titilating come-hither aura that is thick as musk, - which no man can resist.
Next, You need to take the lead sometimes, - but be sensative as to when to when that moment is right., which is not to say that you can set he mood for a special evening - a candle-lite dinner - soft music, a good wine, - you dressed in a sexy teddy and silk wrapper. after a light dinner. you sugest that he maybe he needs a back rub or a nice hot shower to relax a bit , - or both, dosen't that soud good?
Which ever one he opts for you take the lead, and slowly disrobe him, and then yourself and hop into the shower, or lay him face down on the bed, and begin to lather him up, or oil him up - as the case may be. In the shower - you do all the work, (you've already shower'ed earlier that after noon and are as fresh as a daisy, [everywhere]). As you lather him up you pleasure him orally. Then take him out of the shower, towel him off, and give him a slow sensual massage, start him face down, and by the time you get him rolled over on his back, you should be able to manipulate him into being erect again - so you can mount him and you both can become as one.
What's missing? Communication! talk to him - Do you like that baby? Does this feel good Honey? Do you want me to go faster or slower? Ooooo - yess right there." and so on.
So let's review the tips:
1. Be confident in yourself and our own sexuality.
2. It's not the size of your breasts or the shape of your *** that neccesarily makes you sexy, - it's how you USE WHAT YOU HAVE, AND HOW YOU PRESENT IT.
3. Sexy is what you make of it; You need to decide you are sexy to be sexy.
Good luck.
2007-05-29 03:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know the answer to, because my bf complains about us not improving on our sex life!
2007-05-29 09:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a male i would suggest that its not the lady who needs to improve its the guy --- more considerate more tender more romantic more outside the bedroom let you know you are appreciated and loved not just for sex --- for the person you are ----- have fun
2007-05-29 09:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just relax and enjoy it. If you know how you like it maybe you and your partner can show each other!
Best wishes xx
2007-05-29 09:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra my friend
2007-05-29 09:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋