how do i tell my bf?!? i have not cheated but i dont think he will belive me, im afraid of losing him
2007-05-28 08:58:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
he is really untrusting as it is and thinks i am always up to something when im not
2007-05-28 09:06:26 · update #1
HE could have given it to you!
You don't always have symptoms, and one of you could have had it for several years. BOTH of you need to be treated, and use a condom until treatment is complete.
Chlamydia can lead to infertility, and affect newborns.
2007-05-28 09:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably he is the one who infected you...........
Men symptoms of chlamydia may include:
Discharge from the penis
Burning with urination
Swollen and/or painful testicles
When left untreated, chlamydia can increase the risk of acquiring or transmitting HIV, the virus that causes AIDS.
Chlamydia can be easily treated and cured with antibiotics. Because men and women infected with chlamydia often also have gonorrhea, treatment for gonorrhea is often provided as well. It is important to make sure your sex partner(s) also receive treatment, in order to prevent getting infected again. Avoid having sex while being treated, to reduce the chances of getting the infection again or transmitting it to someone else.
Chlamydia trachomatis is a bacterium that can cause a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Chlamydia infection is very common among young adults and teenagers. However, many people do not know that they have chlamydia, because although they are infected, they may not have any symptoms. About 75% of infected women and half of infected men have no symptoms of chlamydia.
Chlamydia is transmitted through sexual contact (primarily vaginal or anal) with an infected person.
The primary risk factors for chlamydia include:
Engaging in unsafe sex
Having sex with more than one partner
Being in a sexual relationship with someone who has multiple sex partners
If you have recently been treated or are being treated for chlamydia infection, you must make sure your sex partner(s) also receives treatment in order to prevent getting infected again. Sex partners should receive treatment even if they do not have any symptoms.
2007-05-28 16:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Piojita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this Chlamydia can be in your system for years and never know about it and then it just comes out. Like any STD, they can lay low for years then come up and bit you.
hope the websites help you and your b/f
2007-05-29 08:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel your boyfriend that you have'nt cheated and if he doesn't belive you then a reckon you need to sit and ave a heart to heart and let him know that you love him and that you wouldn't cheat
2007-05-28 22:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either you are lying and you have ,you have had it from a previous partner and not realised uptil now,or hes the one thats given you it!!
either way he needs to know he can get tested and if its him thats passing it on itll stop him passing it on to anyone else
2007-05-29 06:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had tis 3 years ago you can have it for many months without it being detected u could of got it from past lover or he could of got it from past lover show him this.
if he doesnt believe u chuck him if he truly loves u hel understand
2007-05-28 16:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by sweeti1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably gave it to you or u got it b4 him. Just tell him and have him get treated and god sakes see paperwork so you know he got treated and use protection now on. good luck.
2007-05-28 16:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may of been him giving it to you. You should just tell him, get him to get tested as well.
If he leaves you for it, then he ain't worth it. He should trust you.
2007-05-28 16:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by sparkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he burned u
2007-05-30 02:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by tbabi_22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋