who got it from who?

Question

Me and my exbf have a delema. We lost out virginities to eachother. and then after our break up we continued to do some sexual things(but didnt actualy have sex again). He has never done anything sexual with anyone but me. and he was the first person i ever did anything sexual with. Some how, about 5 months after we had sex, he had an out break of HVP. I went to the doctor and didnt have anything wrong with me as far was they could tell. HPV is impossible to test for, the only way to know if u ahve it, is if u get an out break or genial warts. I have never had an out break, so its impossible to tell if i have it or not. Do you think its likely that i also have the STD? and If so, who got it from who?

I know its HPV and not herpes, because he had an out break of genital warts. The only kind of HPV that can be tested for is the kind that gives you cervial cancer. That is not the same strain that gives you warts. T

I knoq 100% for sure that he was a virgin and that he never did anything sexual with anything else. we are only 17 so thats not something hard to belive. We have also considered the possibility that HPV could potentialy be hereditery. But we are not sure exactly how that plays out since he only had the out break after we had sex.

Answer 1

If he had an outbreak of genital warts then he had some kind of sexual contact with someone who has HPV. He didn't necessarily have to have sex with someone who has the virus though. DIRECT skin to skin contact with the infected area of someone who has the virus is enough to spread it.

There are non sexually transmitted kinds of HPV and sexually transmitted kinds. Genital warts are ONLY caused by sexually transmitted kinds of HPV.

Also, it is possible for you to get tested for HPV if you are a woman. There is no test for men unless they have an outbreak of genital warts. Being tested for HPV is done by a pap smear. A pap smear can tell you if you have any abnormal changes on the cervix caused by HPV. HPV can cause cervical cancer for women so it's VERY important that they stay on top of their pap smears. Even if you do get a pap smear done the doctors may not be able to tell if you have HPV or not. HPV can become dormant in a persons body and if it does then it won't show up on a pap test.

And, HPV is not inherited like green eyes or curly hair is. HPV can be passed to a baby during birth if the mother is experiencing an outbreak of genital warts during delivery though. As the baby is coming through the birth canal it can rub against the warts and contract the virus. This is VERY rare though and can be avoided by a C-section delivery.

Are you SURE he didn't do anything sexual with anyone else or that you didn't do something with someone else?

Good luck!

Answer 2

First, you can never be 100% sure of him being a virgin, as you haven't been with him 24 hours a day from the time he was born til now. Great that you trust him, but I think your trust might just be misplaced.

17 is actually OLD according to **many** younger people now. I myself had sex at 16. Plenty of other people I knew (and I mean plenty) had sex at 14-15. So there is absolutely a possibility that you are with someone not quite telling the truth... his STD should be proof enough of that.

It is very highly likely you have it as well, especially if you've been having unprotected sex. Best thing you can do is stop being with him, and make sure anyone else you're with wears protection (if you're too chicken to flat out tell them what is what), and hope.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Sorry there honey...the ONLY way to get HPV, or genital warts is through sexual contact. It is the ONLY way! Promise.
You can be tested without an outbreak. That is one thing they test for when you go in for your annual GYN exam.
And only one strain of HPV causes warts--there are many different strains out there.
Be careful...but either you or he has come in contact with HPV first and passed it on. One of you isn't being truthful to the other.
Good luck!

Answer 4

Well, it is possible to test for HPV without an outbreak. I think you are confusing HPV with Herpes. There is a big difference. But, if he has herpes , chances are that you have it. It is possible to test for herpes by using a simple blood test. But, most doctors don't like to do it until you have some other symptoms. Have you told your doctor that your boyfriend has either HPV or herpes.

Answer 5

Only you know the answer to this question. If you know for a fact that you have never had any sexual contact with another person, then you obviously are not the contributing factor. Are you certain he is telling you the truth about what he has done, or if in fact he was even a virgin?

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Answer 7

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