Without buying anything? That's going to make quitting tougher, but it can be done. Even so, you might want to reconsider that decision, and spend some money on your future. Tobacco can be an expensive habit, and you ought to take the money you would spend on cigarettes, and put it towards something that will help you quit. Nicotine gum or patches, for example. If you have health insurance (and even if not), there are certain medications that your doctor can prescribe to increase your chances of success. Consider it an investment in your future.
Anyhow, nicotine is a *highly* addictive substance (some studies have shown it to be as addictive as cocaine), and you definitely want to quit while you're young - and never go back. Believe me: I smoked for 8+ years, and it took me a half-dozen tries (in a year-and-a-half) before I finally shook it off. I haven't had a cigarette in over 2 years, and I STILL get cravings from time to time. Reconciling yourself to the fact that you're an addict (although a recent one), and you'll always be an addict, is the first step towards success.
The overall theme here is twofold:
(1) PERSISTENCE. You're human, and your first attempt to quit (and your second, and your third, etc.) might not work, so if you "cheat," get back up and try, try again.
(2) CHOICES - use your brain, and make conscious decisions that maximize your chances of success.
Quitting "cold turkey" works for some people, but statistically speaking, that's not the best way to go about it. So, start by psyching yourself up for it. Pick a date to be 100% cigarette free, maybe a month or two from now. Mark the date on your calendar, and in the meantime, do your best to progressively cut back on nicotine. During this "cutting back" phase, say to yourself, "For the next 7 days, I'm going to limit myself to X number of smokes (or less) per day - NO EXCEPTIONS." After that, cut back by 1-2 per day, every week or so. By the time "the day" rolls around, it'll be easier for you to go smoke-free.
Here's how I did it, and this stuff was especially helpful during this "cutting back" phase (which is the hardest, and for me lasted almost 18 months - PERSISTENCE).
Remember the old saying, "Out of sight, out of mind." Take that to heart, and make the decision stay out of situations that make you want to smoke. If it's parties, alcohol and/or the bar scene, change your lifestyle (at least temporarily). Do *not* try to limit your smoking to those activities you associate with smoking, like some people who say, "I'm only going to smoke when I drink." That hardly ever works, and in fact, it's counterproductive.
Replace the role that smoking plays in your life with something else. If you smoke when you're stressed, or after you've had a big meal, try going for a run or taking a brisk walk, going to the gym, or doing a couple sets of push-ups and sit-ups instead. If you smoke when you study, substitute with coffee (or better yet, bottled water). If you *must* take smoke breaks with your friends or coworkers, take a bottle of water or a stick of beef jerky instead.
Get after what psychologists call the "oral fixation." When you get the urge, try chewing gum (the regular kind or nicotine gum), beef jerky or jelly beans (like Ronald Reagan).
Also, cravings will often pass after a few minutes. So when you get the urge, instead of stepping outside for a smoke, look at your watch, and promise yourself that you will wait at least 30-45 minutes. Then, do something to take your mind off of it, like watching television, reading a book, surfing the net, or exercising.
One of the most helpful strategies (especially during the "cutting back" phase, which you can go through several simes) is ... mind games. Play them with yourself, against yourself. Smoking is all about instant gratification. When you get the urge, before you light up, STOP. THINK about how crappy you feel when you first wake up after smoking. The pressure, the shortness of breath, the lack of sleep. Close your eyes and THINK about those things for a solid 2-3 minutes (time yourself). If you still "need" the smoke, go ahead.
I used to put a big, fat rubber band around my wrist, and would snap myself with it, hard, before I lit up. It made me stop and think, and also to subconsciously associate smoking with pain.
Quit buying cigarettes. If nothing else, your smoker friends will get sick of you bumming, eventually. If you're not reinvesting your smoke-money with nicotine gum, etc. (which you should), make a deal with yourself. Figure out how much you've been spending every week on tobacco, and pick out a reward for quitting, something that you really, really want, something expensive, something you might NEVER otherwise buy for yourself. Then, every week, put your smoke-money in a shoebox, and when you've been smoke-free for a while, say a couple of months, take the money out and purchase your reward.
Again, PERSISTENCE and CHOICES. Quitting smoking is tough, and you might not succeed at first. Keep at it, even if it takes months.
2007-05-21 04:44:09
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answered by Humberto 3
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