I'm curious as I, and probably many other women out there, feel intimidated when telling a guy that we like them. One reasons for this is fear of rejection. Or of being thought of as not good enough, or the other person reacting in disgust (big time). So i'm just wondering, in your honest and brutal opinion, what would turn you off physically and mentally in a girl?
2007-05-18 19:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like if it's because of being too skinny, then what specifically would be too skinny. Too nagging then what would she nag about.
2007-05-18 20:00:14 · update #1
To hate myself? Nah. It's just to satisfy a curiosity of mine. I've always wanted to know this question.
2007-05-18 20:01:50 · update #2
When I think of a girl approaching me, I think of someone that I would like to consider as engaging and friendly. But, along with these other aspects, I expect some things out of women that I portray myself. One thing that would turn me off (disgust is a little harsh of a word) is bad hygiene. That to me is terrible in both girls and guys, so, if a girl comes to me for love interests, and she has badly maintained teeth, hair, skin, etc., that would turn me off. Another thing, is her clothing. I don't like women that wear overly revealing clothes. I don't mean they can't show any skin, I just mean a girl that wears a shirt that is so lowly cut, you can see her breasts falling out of her shirt. Another thing that would turn me off is personality/language. I like for a woman to sound educated, and be educated. That doesn't mean she has to have finished college and have a masters degree in occupational therapy, that just means she can demonstrate a proper use of language, and indicate to me that she cares about her intelligence. Personality is a big thing for me, and looks do help, however, they should not be made a priority. I think it is attractive and accompanies looks well if a woman is kind, and can be affectionate. I would rather have a woman that would be committed to me, than a woman who looks like a model and would flirt and run off with other men. These sorts of things would turn me off in a woman, and I would frankly not deal with her.
2007-05-18 20:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by sirantihero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every single, unattached guy won't be disgusted nor intimidated with this approach.
In fact, you're open-mindedness will get you in a better position since you won't have to wait for him to make the move which might take ages for some men.
As long as you don't overcrowd men with your opinion and intelligence, they won't get turned off.
2007-05-19 03:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ruth A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small boobles a big belly and an ugly face. And bad acne. Personality dont mean ****, all girls are lame it just goes in one ear and out the other And no smart bitches im a genius if i want to talk smart **** ill talk to a guy if i want to talk about designer shoes thats what my girls for. http://www.myspace.com/joeblasutig
Joey
2007-05-19 03:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Joey B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A trannie... or one who comes on way too strong (read desperate) other than that there is nothing wrong with it... that doesn't mean you will get waht you want, remember everyone has a back story... and that might conflict with your interests.
2007-05-19 03:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Josh T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl under 18. (or an elderly woman.)
2007-05-19 03:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, s worry way too much in this area. Only s who are actually ugly would gross guys out If she was, say, missing teeth or was very fat. (It actually kinda hurts to write this)
2007-05-19 03:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by aclockworkpotato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's really disgusting? Bad breath, really obese, body odor, bad teeth, really old, loud and annoying laugh, snorting, nose picking.
these should all be pretty obvious though...
2007-05-19 02:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls tha are to aggressive sometimes scare me. Like when you are at a clu and one shoves you into a dark corner and her and her girlfriend attack you sexually. Also girls that follow me to the bathroom freak me out.
2007-05-19 02:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Chrssygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl that's bad mouthed and loud asked me out I would not accept her I don't like girls with no matters. and physically i would say girls that dress weird, that's all.
2007-05-19 03:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a woman comes on to a guy in my thoughts how was she with the other guys would be my thoughts that would be a turn off . to me???
2007-05-19 03:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by nighthawk_25653 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋