okay so this one boy in my grade i thought liked me...b/c he used to always flirt with me-talk to me and tease me-even complimenting me on my hair and shoes and stuff.....hes in a couple of my classes, but were like aquantinces not friends....but lately hes not paying as much attention to me -in fact hes kinda paying more attention to this girl hes friends with....doing some of the things he did to me (may i mention he did this stuff to me for a couple months) he is kind of a flirt, but it was sooo obvious that he liked me. I don't get it why isn't he treating me like the way he did? and i never ignored him or anything. I was always kinda flirty back.
2007-05-18 14:54:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, because you mentioned the word 'grade' im assuming yall are young. Young boys often try and associate with as many girls they view as cute, cool, etc. as possible. You have to keep in mind, as he sees it, and most boys do (as well as men!) everything is still a game, bait and hook! After paying attention to the girl ur speaking about now, guess what? there will be another. Don't think so much into the WHY right now but the WHO ELSE can i get to notice me. What ur explaining is expected to happen among your age group. Don't hold any ill feelings toward him instead upgrade better feelings about yourself. It wasn't anything you did so don't second guess yourself. Always be 'kinda flirty' like you said. Even when you become a woman, it never pays to give a guy ur ALL:) HAVE A FUN LIFE BABYGIRL!
2007-05-18 15:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by aged grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's just learning how to practice his flirting technique and is moving on to different people. Although you might miss the feeling of his attention, you deserve the happiness of someone who's 100% in to you for real. Hang in there!
2007-05-18 21:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know some guys (and I mean, 90% of guys) want to be the center of attention.
A lot of them love to collect it. Don't get the picture wrong girl, even if he had made a move, he'd probably still be flirtin' with that other girl... show off, if you ask me.
Move on, you're obviously fun and attractive. Ignore him back. Girls that are hard to get get more attention...
2007-05-18 22:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Eclipse owned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to tell you but seeing as you 2 only flirted his intrest might of switched to another girl. Try to get his attention back & make sure that you make a move.
2007-05-18 22:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by dani the great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe in all that teasing he was hoping you'd get tha hint nd make tha first move toward something more grandeur than "acquantances" guys arent always as agressive as they seem.....its either that he got tired of waiting or he just got bored...flirt with him a little now and see if he gives you the same responses that he used to....
2007-05-18 21:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just a crush. He liked you, he got over it, he likes the other girl now. Seems kinda simple to me.
2007-05-18 21:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by iLOL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have figured you weren't interested and moved on. Were you interested? Any chance you're just interested now because he's interested in someone else?
2007-05-18 21:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probaly just being friendly and just having fun or he probaly like the other girl u were talkin about
2007-05-18 21:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by krutilcody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are oblivious. they have no idea that you like them unless you come out and say it, so i suggest you tell him before you lose him completely. i know its hard, but if you really like him, you have to fight for it.
good luck,
anna =)
2007-05-18 21:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by =) <3 =D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u took to long if u knew he liked u then why didnt u ask him out?
2007-05-18 21:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by ESSJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋