Me and my b/f broke up about a week ago. We are kinda "talking" like we hold hands and stuff but I am not completely sure if I want to date him again or not. I still REALLY like him but I am afraid I will get hurt again......PLZ help me!
2007-05-18 14:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it he will just hurt u again i fell for it 6 times and it is always the same
2007-05-18 14:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your boyfriend break up with you in the first place?
If your not sure that you want to go out with him anymore, There is no one forcing you to do such. I would advice you to talk some time away from each other , And perhaps even start seeing other people. If the two of you feel you might want to get back together after a couple of months, Then talk it over. If you don't , Then it wasn't meant to be. Everyone is afraid of getting hurt, Did he do something to you to hurt you, Other then breaking up with you? If he did, Then it is time to move on..
2007-05-18 15:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have sit and talk about why you broke up. I think that if you still feel something for him you should go and talk him, now you have the opportunity to go for him and tell how much do you care. Dont be afraid of getting hurt again, now is the moment to arrange things.
2007-05-18 14:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been hurt a lot and I know the feeling. Be strong even though you're hurt. You have to appreciate yourself more than he did. If you are a nice person who doesn't deserve to get dumped, you should move on. Look around you and those who have always loved you. Smile and life will smile back at you.
2007-05-18 14:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by mh012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are afraid of being hurt again, then you will never be able to date again, period. I think that he if wants to get back with you, you should give him a chance, if he's one of those "good" ones out there!
2007-05-18 14:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends on why you broke up in the first place.
If you both still like each other, no one else is involved, and whatever problem/problems that made you break up can be resolved, then go out again.
And if not, then don't.
Really just kinda depends on your situation.
2007-05-18 14:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a REAL boyfriend. Why would you want to be with some moron that broke up with YOU in the 1st place???
Good Luck!
:)
2007-05-18 14:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got hurt once obviously it didn't matter. Go get hurt again, it doesn't seem to bother you, you go back to him.
2007-05-18 14:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well only you know in your own heart what he really is feeling, we can only guess i don't want to rate as him asshole if he isn't, so if you think he will hurt you for sure then you should go on your own gut feelings they are usually right ...gl have faith is your own decisions...
2007-05-18 14:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take my advise stay away from him, he is playing you for a fool. He will only use you, when he is not using someone else.
2007-05-18 14:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by creedman976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋