A girl I like posted a bulletin on myspace titled "strawberry" (see additional details). I think she has a boyfriend so I reposted it titled "lemon." She asked me why I titled it "lemon." What do I say back? I don't want to say directly "Because you have a boyfriend so I don't feel like waiting for someone anymore" even though that's why. I want to say that it's because I'm focused on graduating to dodge the question and not let on how I really feel about her, because I kind of like her but I've only known her for a week and I want to get to know her. I took her to my prom and we had fun that night, slow dancing really close and holding each other in all of our pictures. I think I should just have normal conversations with her and wait for her boyfriend to cheat on her again, but then again nothing will happen if she doesn't know how I feel. I also don't want to get hurt. If I tell her the truth, does that mean tell her I like her or what I said in this question?
2007-05-18 14:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is an example (not all of) of the message:
Repost this with the name of the fruit that describes you and how you feel.
A-P-P-L-E-- (If you are taken.And you love that person)
L-E-M-O-N-- (If your are about to give up.)
S-T-R-A-W-B-E-R-R-Y-- (If you like someone and they like you but you're not going out.)
2007-05-18 14:32:14 · update #1
She asked me in a message, and she's expecting me to call her.
2007-05-18 14:33:01 · update #2
So if that is what Strawberry means then how do you know that she isn't talking about you. If you don't tell her how you feel you could miss your chance and later on find out that she really did like you and regret it because you didn't tell her. This is something that you need to get off of your chest because if you don't then it will bother you for a while take you're chances life is all about taking risks.
2007-05-18 14:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by smithjjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should say "because you're trying to focus on graduating". This will entirely close your window of opportunity. Tell her something like "all the good ones are taken already". That sounds kinda smooth.
2007-05-18 21:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by ihatechunli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, you are just one big confused soul lol i think that ur thinking too much into the situation over analyzing every little thing, Just tell her how u feel and how you believe youw ould be a better man to her than the one she has now as my bf says u need to MAN UP and go for what you want instead of sittin around WAITING for SOMEONE else to make her see that your tha one for her. go ahead nd tell her thats wat i think....i like it wen a guy is straightforward so to tell her would be your best bet
2007-05-18 21:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i don't really knwo what advice to give but those words representing your feelings is pretty creative. lol...i mean that in a good way
2007-05-18 21:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by coolwhipp88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man if you dont tell her your stupid!!!!! You never know what could possibly happen.....If her BF already cheated on her than he deserves to get her taken away from him. Just be your self tell her how you feel son!!!!
2007-05-18 21:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Knalu M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that the girl you like is taken. don't tell her anything else. just say it kind of flirty-ish. if you don't think you can do that without laughing or breaking down and telling her everything, just kind of avoid it completely. if you tell her everything, it might kind of freak her out.
2007-05-18 21:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by katty claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the government is investigating myspace? Just some trivia.
2007-05-18 21:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call her and tell the truth , if she understands than cool and if she gets mad at u or somthin than shes a skeeze...(an change ur thing to strawberry)
2007-05-18 21:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by froggyreba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly silly boy.........She labeled herself Strawberry because she likes you but you are not going out. Tell her how you feel!!
2007-05-18 21:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hun you should tell her exactly the way u feeel about her
2007-05-18 21:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋