OMFG I can't stand that little brat! How can i get her out of my life?!?!?!?

Question

Hi my name is Jennifer and im gunna be 17 in june, and i have this one problem, my 5 yr old sister Dannie is an annoying little pest. All she does is TALK TALK TALK!!!!!! When it was friday night, its my "all to myself" night. I made some popcorn and chips i bought with MY money, everytime she see me with food she says "mommy i want some" I say no, because forst of all it's MY food and secondly she just stuffed her face in 3 plates of pasta. Mom says give her some! Now im forced to share with her. I promised my best friend Kim, i come to her party, everytime i have something planned i have to watch Dannie, instead of going to the best party in high school history! with a DJ from the most popular radio station. I screamed at the brat and told to get the Hell out of my face, and she keeps coming back. Now i hit with a pillow until she goes away or maybe a shoe. There was a meeting to get a college scholarship, and mom couldnt take me because whos gunna watch Dannie? Now i cant get it

I can't get the scholarship, now I'll never go to college. my family doesnt have any money for college, it was a once in a lifetime opprotunity. They always say jennifer i dont have time to take you to this 'place'. She doesnt have time to get a me a license, but she has plenty of time for Dannie. I can't stant that dirty little brat, id be much happer if she were dead! Because of her existance my life is RUINED! I lost my best friend for a broken promise which isnt even my fault. My boyfriend broke up with me cause i miss so many dates with him. Could life suck anymore?! To everyone shes God's little angel, but in my eyes a child of Satan! I want to kill her so bad, i could taste it! You kno what, unless my parents pay me for watching Dannie, I'm not gunna have that brat hold me hostage. I go out of the house go to parties and leave her there. She could get kidnapped for all i care.

How can i get this child of satan out of my life?!

Answer 1

calm down. the thought of you hating your little sister like that tears my heart out. it's not her fault. i have a similar problem between my 18 and 9 yr old sons. the big one hates the little one. the little one is feeling it too. what i suggest is, talk to your mom after the little one has gone to bed. let your mom know beforehand that you'd like to talk to her alone after dannie is asleep and that it's very important. this way she won't be taken off guard. when it's time to talk, do it calmly and as an adult. don't talk nasty about your sis b/c that willl make your mom defensive which will only lead to a fight. tell her how you need your private time and why. you'll have to make some compromises as well. maybe work out a schedule with your mom for babysitting. spend a little time with your sister where she doesn't have to beg for your attention. give it all to her for just an hour. play a game,make a cake,take her to the park.if she doesn't have to beg for it,she won't bother you as much. give this some time to work.
it's worth a try. don't hate your sister. i'd kill to have mine back.

Answer 2

Okay, you really need to calm down. Here are a few things you need to consider:

• Honestly, this is your sister you're talking about! How could you possibly want to KILL your own sister? She's related to you, and you hate her. Ever heard of loving your family?

• This girl is five years old, and I'll have to admit, she does sound spoiled. But you can't scream "get the hell out of my face" or hit her with a shoe when she's only FIVE YEARS OLD! That's completely unreasonable!

• You also need to quit blaming your sister for everything that's happening in her life. She's five; do you expect her to be able to take care of herself while you go out and party? It's also not her fault that you didn't get the scholarship. You need to quit blaming your sister for stuff that's happening in your life, because it's not her fault.

• Once you consider all these things, I'd advise talking to your mom about how you're feeling like a third wheel. You need to tell her (calmly, I might add!) that although you know Dannie needs someone to watch her, YOU need some time to have a life. Maybe she can start hiring a babysitter or something.

Answer 3

Okay wait a minute,
First of all chill seriously u gotta cool down
Second of all i think you need to leave your sis alone and have a serious talk with your parents tell them that you can watch over Dannie but not all the time because you have to work on your on life to. And start being nice to her even if you can't! have a very serious talk. Cool down it's not over yet!
P.S u think that's bad try having 2 little brothers!

Answer 4

You have no idea how painful it is to lose a sister................I just lost mine and i would give up college,boyfriends and everything I own just to see her smile one more time. Your relationship with your mom is the real issue...........
Trust me you may want to make her leave you alone but you do not want to have to hold her cold dead hand and not ever be able to say you are sorry or that you love her............the thigs you are upset about i know were important to you but dissapointment is no reason to want to kill your sister. Do you really like being this way?

Answer 5

instead of your always being pushed into the corner,why doesnt your mom take the little pain in the a** with her for a change?theres nothing worse than having a "kiddy sister" thats always tattooed to you butt! let me ask you something,do you get paid for sitting with little miss gimmie? if you dont then tell your mother that if i have to ruin my life then i want combat pay!

Answer 6

someone is hating you inside of you, stop hating your cute little sister and start loving her. the lord our father in heaven is in your little sister telling her to follow you, show your sister a good example and how much you love her , give her all the things you have that are good for her

Answer 7

HOW ABOUT A FEW SWATS ON HER RUMP WITH A PADDLE OR BELT. IF SHE IS GOING TO HOLLAR THEN GIVE HER SOMETHING TO HOLLAR FOR LIKE PAIN.

Answer 8

6 words for you......
one day you'll appreciate your sister