that is just in my town so dont explode on me
2007-05-18 14:30:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question is: why is it that way?
2007-05-18 14:34:24 · update #1
I agree with you.
As much as times have changed, guys still have to make the first move (most of the time) giving girls the power of whether they go out or not.
2007-05-18 14:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may appear that way but there are women out there who have just as a hard time trying to land a guy. With guys, we look mainly at the physicalities of a woman and figure if someone is VERY HOT, they just get guys falling to them left and right...and based on just the looks, you get that perception. And some guys will take the "mental abuse" of a hot woman if they feel they have a chance to land with them.
However, there are women out there that feel "average", physically unattractive, or have a low-self esteem (AS DO GUYS). It is primarily because of those things that there are women that do have a hard time landing a guy.
The best thing I can tell you in terms of landing a woman is this.....BE CONFIDENT. Carry yourself proud anywhere you go...that you are "DA MAN!". Women look more into emotions and personality than looks for the most part and if you don't consider yourself to be a male "hottie" but can come off with an energy and aura that a woman can't resist, you'll have a less hard time. And if a woman doesn't recognize that in you....then POOF, onward to the next person.
It is that confidence that a woman tends to figure out if there is a certain chemistry that can happen.
2007-05-18 14:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just try too hard; acting tough and being someone your not is NOT attractive at all. Be yourself.
And girls don't try hard really because most guys will settle for anything, whereas a good handful of girls..definitely dont settle. They know they can do better.
2007-05-18 14:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the way it is where i live too. So I just dont hit on gilrs at all until I know they want me. Im so good looking that some gilrs just want to try me. Then of course I hear girls say they only get hit on by losers. Them same beotchs always want to cage me and marry me Im like ok, if we have sex again. . . Then after a few mnths im like nah. I dont think this is working out, lets just be friends ok.
2007-05-18 14:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by RaptureMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Some guys don't have to work very hard to get girls. Of course there is a difference between getting a guy or a girl, and getting a good one.
2007-05-18 14:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only knew how hard girls work to try to attract guys and avoid rejection.
2007-05-18 14:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by miggyjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad somebody brought that up. I always thought of it in the same way. It's probably because so many girls are so freaking shy.
2007-05-18 14:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have some different weapons, than little boys do, and they know how to use them. Young boys are excited easier than girls.
2007-05-18 14:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What planet are you from? They each put out a lot of effort. It only works out when both want each other.
2007-05-18 14:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have more girls than guys.
2007-05-18 14:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋