2years ago i fell in love with my best friend(10 years older then me)but he told me he didnt feel that way.few months later he told me he loves me,but he ws hesitant coz he wud get married to whom his parents say(me n him cud never really be).we"dated"but he never touched me...not even once.finally2months later he ended it,without explaining.i finally started moving on,and a year and a hlf later he gets drunk and tells me he loves me still.i was with someone else so i didnt think about it much.one day,after id broken up he was with me and he kissed me and i didnt stop him. we had a "thing"but i told him a week later i cudnt go through the pain of losin him again n we'd to stop.he had to go back home for his sisters weddin n there his parents got ihm married. he comes back and says that we cud still be more if i want. i dont want to be his mistress but i dont understand him at all or what he expects of me.i dont resent him4hving gtten married,i knw he wud do nythin4his parents.
2007-05-18 14:25:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Still you don't just go get married, if he can not stand up to his parents then it will never work. He is now married so you need to leave him alone and move on. I think you also need to sit with him and tell him that you can be friends and only friends since he is now married and you are not that type of person.
2007-05-18 14:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That must feel horrible to see the Man you love get married, but first of all be realistic, it is hard honey but he may not be for you, first of all he has to be a man and tell his parents he will decide who to marry, second of all he should of not kissed you he is very disrespectful to his wife and what he committed to, wether he was forced into marriage or not if he didn't want o be married then he should of said NO! now that he is he must respect his marriage, and he needs to make up his mind and stop hurting you, my advice is to get away from him as much as possible and one day God will bring a good real MAN who loves you and deserves you. Good luck, and don't let him hurt you once again!!
2007-05-18 14:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do would be to stay away until you're over him. It does hurt, I won't lie, but it's going to hurt more (and for longer) if you don't learn to stop loving him. He's married. You'll never have him in the way you want to have him. You can fall in love with someone else. You deserve to fall in love with someone else, someone who can love you back and give you all of themselves, but you need to give yourself the chance. Tell him you need some time away, and then don't call or see him until you feel able to communicate without the "butterflies". Best of luck to you. You have to be strong, but it will make you happier than trying to find a way to be with this guy.
2007-05-18 14:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that hes telling u what he feel like u would want to hear to get what he wants. Move on bcause its not worth it bcause he'll play u to the end. "why buy the cow when u can get the milk for free". To me parents cant make one of their grow children do anything bcause love is blind.
2007-05-18 14:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN AWAY QUICK!
Even though you may love this guy, he belongs to someone else now. You should not be "second" to this.
2007-05-18 14:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. Would you really want to marry this sleezeball?
2007-05-18 14:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he is married, dont do it!
2007-05-18 14:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by your face=] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your question?
2007-05-18 14:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by lalacabore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋