I'm sick and tired of my parents?

Question

ok so my parents are stupid.......they keep me from the tings that mean the most to me and it sux my parents fight alot and with my older sister who just moved in with her new born baby
i cant stand the fighting any more im sick of beeing a good girl ..... i just wanna be myself and they dont let me what ever i do its not good enouf. i guess im just suposed to sit there and take it when they say things like u need help get active ur getting fat and constantly putting me down i hat it and i cant live up to there expectations ......i just wanna get out of here what should i do

Answer 1

first things first., stay in school . you are going to need it. second they want you to become active and healthy . what is wrong with that?

Answer 2

First of all, your parents are not stupid. You are probably putting them under a lot of pressure because you are too young to make any decent decisions on your own. Some day when they are gone you are going to look back and realize how stupid you were with the things that you thought meant the most to you. Probably like your own cell phone and your own car and wanting to stay out as late as you want with the people who you "think" are your friends, but your parents see right through them and everything else you think you wanted to do or to own, but in the end it is all meaningless. You only have two true parents and the are in a very precarious position to get through to you about the difference between right and wrong.If they push you too hard they will loose you. If they don't push you enough your current situation is only going to get worse. so get over yourself - be a better person and cut them some slack before it's too late.

Answer 3

First of all dont do anything like run away. My best advice to you is to stay in school and once you become of age get a job and get emancipated. If you have a job and or in school and the judge sees you are able to live on your own then you have good shot. One thing though your parents have to be okay with it. I know how you feel my mom was and still is a pain in my A$$. Maybe you have some relative you can stay with. And you say your a good girl right. Well tell your mom and dad straight up how you feel about them let it be known girl dont be scared!!!

Answer 4

hi sweety; i really feel for you i know how all that feels from your end of things.but now listen,some times it is a real good idea to try and be a bit more understanding,have you ever thought that may your parent's are under a lot of stress having a new baby in the house,and that maybe your sister is a handful for them to?try this;ask and see if maybe there isn't something maybe you can do for them to take off some of the pressure they might be feeling themselves,instead of maybe just setting around and doing nothing,or running out in a bad attitude because things are quit the way you want them to be?think about it i am sure there is something that you can do.see if this won't smooth things out a bit' this is all apart of growing up/not runnind away like a child....bye now.

Answer 5

As difficult and weird as this sounds, just TRY to get along.
After a while you'll see that your parents arent so bad, and that they really just want the best for you.
And I know this answer is probably not really what you want, seeing as how your mad and frusterated right now. But give yourelf some time to cool off and see how things go.
Again, parents arent there to be mean. All they want is your respect.
Good luck :)

Answer 6

i dont know how old u are but im a young teen and im at that stage where my parents are freaking annoying but hang in there for a few more years then got o colleage so u have an excuse to get out of the house!

Answer 7

i really think that you need help,is there a womas shelter in your area where you could go for help? if there is investigate what they have available there if you feel threatrened by someone run,dont walk there and your personal information that you give to these people will never be exposed to anyone,i can understand where youre coming from. good luck!

Answer 8

wow...another whiney, lazy, American kid.

So you are mad because your parents want you to get up off the couch and do something active?? Sitting on your butt being a couch potato is not "being yourself" it's just being lazy and unmotivated.

It's not that you can't live up to their expectations, you just choose not to. Their expectations don't seem so far out. What should you do? get off your *** and do something. Go for a hike, go swimming, ride a bike, jump on the trampoline, or just go mow the lawn.

Answer 9

Dear Elizabeth,
Everyone has bad days. It's not easy when one is unable to communicate with their parents. Is there another adult in your family, school, or church that you can communicate with?
Concentrate on school, and perhaps one day when you're older and more independent, you'll be able to move out on your own. Please be patient.... ;)

Answer 10

dont worry about them just listen and let it out the other ear..be respectful but not too much that they can totally control you..let em know how you feel