What should i do??
2007-05-18 13:50:36 · 18 answers · asked by Meg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl if he like you go for it give him some love you go girl friend
2007-05-18 13:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by cupitgirl100 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stop it right now before it goes any farther. He is married and your boss...that's 2 bad things that could lead to trouble. Just remember that if fool around with a married man, you get the leftovers. You have to sit around alone while he is at home with his wife and family . Holidays and vacations will be spent with his wife and family. Is that really the kind of relationship that could make you happy? Be careful. I've never seen one of these relationships work out for the good. Also, be prepared to lose your job if anyone finds out. Don't do it.
2007-05-18 20:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it. This can only hurt you. First of all, married men don't leave their wives, no matter what they say. I don't care if he says "We're only together until the kids move out," or "We haven't had sex in years, we have separate bedrooms," they still N E V E R leave their wives. If they do, they have to pay all kinds of alimony and child support and they would rather stay and just have affairs on the side. Second, if you start an affair and fall in love, can you imagine the heartache? He will have to hide you from everybody, you would be his dirty guilty little secret. You will be sitting home lonely at nights knowing he is home probably cozy with his wife. He will only spend time with you when it is convenient for him. And during all the time you waste with him, you will be getting older and the one you were meant to be with will be passing you by. DON'T DO IT!!!! Change jobs if you have to.
2007-05-18 20:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mix business with pleasure especially with a boss who is married*
You can have your fantasys and he can too but Never Act On Them* It Will Never Work Out*~ You both end up losing and alot of ppl get hurt*
Keep your infactuation to yourself and continue doing your job or look for another job if you don't feel you can control yourself.~ Best Wishes*
2007-05-18 20:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are tempted to loose both your job and your self-respect. He's your boss, keep it that way or find another job. Oh, let's not forget he is married. Do you really want to be broke, jobless, and someones second choice? Go to work and do your job, and only your job. You can not come out a winner in this situation.
2007-05-18 21:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by brenda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyone before me advise you to stay away from this emotional relationship. And they are correct. You should look at your job and your co-workers (including your boss) from the professional viewpoint. Avoid letting emotions getting in the way.
2007-05-18 21:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Raymond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from married men especially your boss. this is a good way to end your career immediately.
if you get involved with your boss and think it is all secret believe me you coworkers will know!
you sound like a nice goril and you really do not want to be a slut. so do not get involved with a married man especially your boss because it is wrong.
2007-05-18 20:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by soarinwithclouds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that, and trust me, IT IS NOT A GOOD IDEA. He's married, and it will never work out. He will make you feel terrible, you will be miserable, and it will end badly, not to mention you could lose your job.
Find someone single. The infatuation goes away...I promise.
2007-05-18 20:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE!!!!! Do you want to be the other woman? He needs to be a boss and a husband to the correct women. He needs to take care of his wife and forget about you at work. Don't be the family splitter!!! BEWARE. Very bad ground!!!
2007-05-18 20:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO-get a new job lined up and get out of there, you are walking on fire. Run, Forrest, Run! This is danger, and not even worth wasting your time on. If he had feeling he would be showing you divorce papers, not his wedding ring, and having feelings. I cannot impress it enough, get out as soon as you can.
2007-05-18 20:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not go there it is not a good thing your boss is married he will cheat on her he will cheat on you do not do that to yourself ok do the right thing you i don't know but i know you can find someone who is not married ok you not doing whatever with your boss will make you feel so good
2007-05-18 21:10:25 · answer #11 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋