I have 3 dogs, all of whom need to go to new homes as I'm now separated and cannot give them the attention they all need. The older dog has been on her own before, and isn't the issue of this question. The 2 younger dogs (both aged 4 years) have lived together since they were pups; though not littermates. They even sleep together in the same kennel. I've found an interested owner for one of them who can provide a fantastic life for him, but cannot take both dogs. I feel very guilty about separating them, but at the same time I can't provide the exercise and loving socialized environment they need. They end up kenneled much of the time, which clearly isn't fair. Should I go ahead with the new home for one dog which will separate lifelong companions or keep looking for a home that can keep them both? It'll be easier to find a good home for the second dog as well on her own rather than finding someone who will keep both. What do you think?
2007-05-18 10:04:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
Not me!! I wouldn't separate them after four years. See if you can find a rescue to take them. I know they even have dogs that must go to new homes together!! I want to say I am sorry to hear about your current situation.
2007-05-18 10:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by ® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, you must consider the needs of your dogs. The most important thing is to get them the best home(s) possible. If the two younger ones have been together since they were pups, and sleep in the same kennel, I would try to find them a home together. It may take a bit longer, but they will be happier.
Are you certain your older dog won't miss the younger two? Dogs mourn the loss of their companions just like people do.
It is sad that you cannot keep them. However, it is good of you to acknowledge their needs and your inability to meet them. I wish all concerned much luck.
2007-05-18 10:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sunluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY keep them TOGETHER! Dogs are very emotional. . AND they go through seperation anxiety. It''s horrible! I went through it with my dogs. They were seperated at 5 years old, the one I kept, stopped eating, slept all the time and howled for months. It was heart wrenching and he is STILL not the same and it's been 2 years. I would NEVER allow it to happen again. You will find someone to take both if you keep looking. Even if you're not with them 24/7, they have eachother, they will be fine until you find a home for both together. Please think about them..they gave you good memories, laughs and loyalty. They deserve something back in a situation like this. They're going to be heartbroken enough losing you...don't let them lose eachother... :(
2007-05-18 10:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Foxy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ever had a friend youve known since school? Imagine being separated, without knowing why or where they went? 4 years depending on the breed is a thirid of its life, no home will good enough if they are separated, the potential new home owner has seen the dogs together, happy, when/if you deside to separate them the dog wont be the same happy dog that he/she saw when seeing them, you know it wouldnt be fair to them neither, if the worst came to the worst, give them to shelter where they can be together and be passed on together, that will relieve the pressure on you to separate them in such a hurry. Hop i my advice is helpful.
2007-05-18 10:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by JD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the dogs been to any obedience training? Doesn't sound like it. Is the person going to take the dog to obedience training? If so I would not hesitate for a moment in separating the dogs. Dogs adapt and adjust well if you know dog behavior and how to help speed the transition along. One answerer suggested not doing it because the dog might develop separation anxiety. But separation anxiety behavior is correctable.
2007-05-18 11:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by DaveSFV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you. Though some dogs do suffer from seperation anxiety, it is better to start small. Keep the dogs apart for periods of 30 minutes to get use to being alone or without the other playmate.
I would suggest giving the dog to the new owner. All animals eventually get over losing a play mate, and find things to do on there own. Its just a matter of giving the dog things to play with.
good luck
2007-05-18 10:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by montana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, I am SO sorry for all you are going through.
If it were me, I wouldn't seperate them. I have 3 dogs now and I know if I seperate the 2 that have been together since they were 6wks old they go crazy. Even for a couple of hours.
I would def. try to find them a home together.
Good Luck.
2007-05-18 10:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geez, what a dilemma for you. If would be extremely hard for me to separate my 2 dogs, so I know what you must be feeling. I would keep them together, I think it would be so traumitic for both of them to lose the home they have lived in (and you) and also lose each other. Keep searching for a home that will take both of them, and best of luck to you. I am so sorry you have to give up your dogs.
2007-05-18 10:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by doris s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't seperate them. While the one with the owner will get over it, the other may not recover from loneliness. Keep them together until you can find owners for both of them, or a home together.
2007-05-18 10:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should keep your dogs,, dogs adapt well, if you are home in the mornings and evenings and around some of the time on the weekends, give them quality time.. ALSO,, doesn't the person whom you are now "Separated" from care about the dogs?? maybe he/she could take them all
2007-05-18 10:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋