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i am not a relgious person although i have my beliefs, do you think it is right to take her?

2007-05-18 09:37:19 · 32 answers · asked by yecart19710 3 in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

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One way or another she will be exposed to it.

You might as well be there with her so you can be sure she isn't getting bad advice from others.

2007-05-18 09:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dark-River 6 · 2 0

Yes, I think it is a good idea to bring your daughter to a church that teaches exactly what the Bible says.

I might suggest that you go, too. Of course it would be wonderful if you decided to become a member, but that is a secondary motive. My Primary motive is this:

You are responsible for your daughter's upbringing, and it would probably be a good idea if you hear what she is hearing. If you have questions, you have the opportunity to bring those questions to the teacher, or to the church elders for clarification. This way, you are sure your daughter is getting a proper education, and you have an understanding of the teachings.

Also, if you truly object to something, you have first-hand knowledge of the teaching, and you will not have to rely on the possibly imperfect understanding of a 7-year-old. You may be able to clarify something to her, or you may decide that the teachings are just too far off the mark and you need to go somewhere else.

2007-05-18 09:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Barry F 5 · 1 0

Ok, what I did with my son at this age was I took him to different demonitaitional churches, I had him ask the mormon's and jw's questions when they came to the door, and I read to him about wicca, and buddishm. I also informed him what atheist meant. I am not a religous person either, but I think it is important to let kids experience every religion available and let them choose their own path. My son started going to the one church he liked ( he had friends there) and that is where he still goes, though I haven't set foot in a church since taking him to the first couple.

2007-05-18 09:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by catmomiam 4 · 0 0

I do believe that it would be good for her. Do you have a Church that you are affiliated with, either through your past, or through your family? If so you can start by taking her there, then maybe try other Churches, different faiths, as well as talking to her about your own beliefs.
When she is older, let her read books on different religions, actually there may even be books geared for her age.
Let her explore, and be with her while she is exploring.
It will be good for her.

2007-05-18 12:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by meg3f 5 · 1 0

You know it's funny because in church they were talking about how God calls people to him. He uses many means to get people to learn and become closer to him. There is a reason why your child is asking so extensively about God. I think a good start would definitely be a non denomination church. Something Conservative like an Assembly of God church. Pray about it and see where it goes.

2007-05-18 09:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by aaron_gonzalez21 2 · 2 0

I think that in the end it's entirely up to you as her parent to decide if you feel comfortable taking her. If she's curious, I see no harm in taking her. The other thing you can do is see if there are some friends of various beliefs that would take her to Sunday services. That way she'd get to experience different beliefs and can decide for herself what she believes is right.

2007-05-18 09:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kellye B 4 · 3 0

This is information that you can give your child. As long as you discuss it all with her and do your best to answer her questions then I think it's a good idea. Make sure she knows there are lots of different churches too, she might be interested in different religions.

2007-05-18 09:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1 0

Yes, why not look for a church with a lively kids club where you can take her and you don't have to go to the service yourself. As long as you know she is in safe hands (make sure they are checked for past offences) you have no need to worry.

2007-05-19 02:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by good tree 6 · 0 0

My five yr old son since starting school has begun asking questions about God. I just explain that its something some people believe in. introduce her to lots of religions (if they let you!! See my own question) and she'll have a completely unbiased view from which she can make up her own mind.

2007-05-20 02:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by binksiesbaby 2 · 0 0

Yes definitely. If your daughter is interested in religion you should encourage her, take her to church and let her see what it's like and then let her make up her own mind.
God Bless

2007-05-19 10:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Yes, better she should go with you than someone else. She'll feel more free to ask you questions than someone else, and you'll both probably learn new things. Visit several different groups and observe how they relate their lives to God and each other. You don't have to feel pressured, and your daughter won't be pressured either--as she might be by a well-meaning friend's mum, or something.

2007-05-18 09:43:40 · answer #11 · answered by anna 7 · 2 0

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