I dont know what to do! There is this boy that i really like but he is taken! He use to like me! I dont know how to get over him though What should i do??
Should i try to take him away from her or something?(But it would be a mean thing to do)
2007-05-18 07:37:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest and tell him how you feel.
Ask if he feels the same and if not tell em you wish the best for him but if so congrats but also you want em to be hapy right? ask yourself "do i wanna be a HOmEwrecker" not be be mean but ask youself and be honest with you feelings
2007-05-18 07:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dancer_4lyfe311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's taken, then hands off. Stealing him from his GF would not only be mean - but it would ruin your reputation as a nice girl - and all you'll be getting in return is a guy who cheats on his girlfriend.
Move on. Like some other boy. There are lots and lots of them out there. You might even try going out with someone you would never ever expect to date - just to have fun (I mean genuine fun) Ask a shy geek to the church picnic or county fair or the zoo or something like that - nothing serious or romantic. Geek may surprise you. I know an awful lot of extremely wonderful men who were real shy geeks in HS and college.
2007-05-18 14:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i can really give a sound advice, cuz i've been there and havent really gotten over it yet...its like one day he likes you too and the next day he's got someone else...but that's just how it goes...now that he is with someone else you cant really take her from the girl... because one: maybe he does like the new girl more than you and two: think about how the girl would feel; possibly worse than how you're feeling right now.
i think you will just have to wait. see if things between then works out. it if does, do move on and try to be happy for the guy. if it doesnt, then wooohooooo! you can step in. haha.
just think about it this way, if it's bound to happen then it will. and if its not then there surely is someone better...
2007-05-20 06:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by wooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah no dont try to take him away from the girl he is with now never a good idea thats bad karma and you dont want that to come back on you one day because most likley it would. Id say just try and get over him and move on if you two are meant to be he will come back around and then you can be with him if you want. But for now let him be with his girlfriend and have their relationship. I know its hard to get over somone Im trying myself right now to do that and its just a matter of time time is what it takes soon you will just be ok.
2007-05-18 14:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not try to take him away from whoever he is going with now because, apparently he was not meant for you in the first place. Sometimes we can look so hard for a partner that we can't see the forrest for the trees so to speak. Your soul mate is probably closer to you than you think and if you concentrate only on this other you will miss him. A person should not have to fight to be loved and wanted. It should come naturally. If he were meant for you then he would be with you. Just be patient and the right one who is suited for you will be there.
2007-05-18 14:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by nightstar0716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, well first of all, do NOT try to steal him back from this new girl, after all it's not her fault, she shouldn't have to suffer. Well I agree with almost everyone else who has commented, you're going to have to let this one go. It's tough to do, but at the end of the day, it just probably wasn't meant to be. In a way, you're now in the same situation he was in before. You said before he used to like you, but you didn't like him at that time. So you were probably happy with someone else, or just happy being single. He had to watch that, and he probably was in a lot of pain too. But, as you can see, he moved on. Now, you like him, and he doesn't like you, so you're going to have to do the same thing he did before...you're going to have to move on. At the end of the day though, if you just can't be happy without him, I think he deserves to know that. Just tell him-- I really like you, but I expect nothing out of you, since you're happy with someone else. That'll atleast give him the option to decide for himself. Hope it all works out...I know how tough it can be!
2007-05-18 14:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Gangsta Gyal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you should go after someone else guy. But what's meant to be will be and if he likes you still, when both of are without people at the same time, Im sure you'll get together.
#1 rule never ever FIGHT OVER NO MAN
2007-05-18 14:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to break them cause once you get him karma going to get you just take some time alone think about what you really want and a guy then go looking for what you want. dont fall to easy, just keep your options open. and maybe that good guy would just come looking for u.
2007-05-18 14:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Amiah is finally here!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know it is hard when you really really like someone who doesn't like you back. He obviously doesn't want to go out with you or he would have asked you out instead of the other girl. The best thing you can do is scope out a new hottie, someone SINGLE.
2007-05-18 14:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the girls weak spot. Then, say something that embarrasses her in front of the guy but say it casually. He might realize the girl he likes is nothing compared to you and he will come running to you!!!!!!
2007-05-18 20:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋