I am in my mid 20's...i was in a car crash a couple of months ago...i am fine, but my car was totaled...i am driving a bicycle now...i live close to work and also different shops and centers so i didnt really need a car,...so now what im stressing about is how i can't really have a social life or date anyone, since i dont really have a car, i have to wait for the bus, take a taxi, ride my bike or have one of my friends go with me so they can give me a ride...i am saving for a car, but i prob. wont get it until the end of the year...so what should i do...should i stay single until i get a car again?
2007-05-18 07:27:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I read the question, it reminded me of an advertisement series done by Yellow Cab company, um, several years ago (it was an old and dated ad when I was a kid): The thinking fellow, calls a yellow. Then too, remember the cheesy end on that old movie, The Graduate, when the young Dustin Hoffman's character stole the bride away from her wedding and used the city bus for their getaway vehicle, as normal farepaying passengers.
Don't stress the wheels because bikes, busses, and taxis have been taking daters on their way for an incredibly long time. Take it easy, relax, and if your girl is so shallow as to pass up such transportation options, then you have just saved yourself some grief later in the relationship. So don't stress out over it and you'll both do fine.
2007-05-19 12:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without wheels, Don"t get worked up if you use your imagination you can do anything ! First off find a date who is not into the material world. Walk hand in hand to a park or somewhere private and have a picnic. Go for a bike ride together. Lay back and look at the stars.
2007-05-18 07:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay single. U obviously have access to the world wide web, so date online...get in a chat room or somthin. U gotta make the best of things until u get a ride of ur own. Find someone who also does not have a car. That's common ground 4sho.
2007-05-18 07:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a car to get a date. Find a girl who's not materialistic. A girl like that will not care whether you have a car or not. A girl like that will only care about how you feel about her. She wouldn't care if you took her someplace just taking the bus. If my husband didn't have a car. I would love him regardless. Life is not about cars.
2007-05-18 07:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither my husband or I drove and we managed it, courting and marriage..you use any means possible and i wouldn't change a thing, the nights we walked home after getting drunk and the parks we stopped at, yes shopping was a pain but we did use a lot of taxi's and we felt healthier for it...life doesn't stop because you haven't any wheels.
2007-05-18 07:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see people getting a thumb down for commenting 40 year old virgin. its true though watch it. what the hell else do you want people to say. "buy a new car" well that's what your askin for us to say.
dude if you think you cant get a girl without a car your a retard. no let me rephrase that.
if the girl wont date you because you have no car.
.....F*** that B****!!!!
you don't need a girl who gonna want you for your goods. but please don't get me wrong don't use the girl once your with her cus shell start to hate you and wonder if your even worth it.
2007-05-18 07:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Big Head 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One doesn't necessarily have a car in order to date.
The girl should be crazy about you and not about your car or your riches and wealth!
If you wanna go out then use the public transport. There's no harm or shame in that.
2007-05-18 07:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most girls wont mind getting on the bus or catching a cab, just be honest about your situation, it's not bad. it's not like your not trying to get a car! women are more understaning then you obviously think
2007-05-18 07:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex didnt have a car when i first started dating him...Me and his friends used to drive him around where ever he needed to go...and durring the day he just walked to work. Its not a big deal...People will still like you :)
2007-05-18 07:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say date people that live really close to you. And walk to your dates like make them all close to where you live.
OR
find someone with a car :]
2007-05-18 07:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by Schizo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋