advise please?

Question

I just have to get this of my chest so here it goes!
I am 13 years old my life sucks i really feel like shooting myself!!
I am so stressed out for the past 4 months that I cant even pee at home!!
I have been to so many Urologists and they all say its a Shy Bladder!
I dont get support from anyone, I am a really good person I help everyone I am supportive I would do anything to make someone happy! And I get nothing in retturn I really wana pee (*crying*) again..
Please just tell me what to do I really wana make everything better Is there anything..

I just got badly beaten by my uncle and my mom and my dad because i got angry and i was in the bathroom for 20mins tryn to pee.

and i have to share a room with him :-(
I wish i wasnt born (*crying right now*)

Answer 1

I am 48 and nine years ago stayed with my Sister for a vacation. Her husband has a serious problem with 'shouting' and for a entire week I could NOT go to the toilet in the house, had to leave and go elsewhere. You must have someone a teacher at school that you can talk to about this. Do not let them get the better of you, stand your ground and go for a pee, even if it takes eight hours.

Answer 2

********* Hold On ************
At 13, I know this may be hard to understand but you are in control of your own life! Shooting yourself will not help anything. You have a wonderful adult life ahead of you that is worth hanging on for! Take a few deep breaths........ Calm down and try a new approach. ***** The only person that has control over your life is you. Once you stop counting on other people to make you happy you will find relief. Your pee problem is most likely caused by severe stress. If you can... Take a long bath, but on music, clear your mind, let go of all your worries, dream about the beautiful future you are going to create for yourself, dream about peeing in peace and let it release in the tub. Life is worth living. The way things are now is not how they will always be. Good Luck.... feel free to e-mail me if you need more positive support.

Answer 3

First of all- put the thoughts of suicide out of your head.
I hate to tell you this but you really need to focus on taking care of your needs first. It sounds selfish, but in reality you can not make anyone else happy. It is their choice to be or not to be happy, and you are making yourself miserable trying to change something that you can not. I think that part of your problem is stress related. Both physical and emotional. I can not advise you on your home life... I do not know the full story or the dynamics in your relationships with your parents and uncle. I can tell you that it would be healthy for you if you had a space of your own and share a space with someone you obviously feel uncomfortable with. This inability to feel at ease or comfortable contributes to your problem. If you do not have any way to get your own space then make a list of the things in your environment that make you feel upset, uncomfortable.... sad. Then sit down with your parents and talk to them about the list and what it is about the items on the list that make you feel uncomfortable.... It is the best you can do at this point. Afterall you can not mend a fence if you do not realize that it is broken.

Answer 4

You need to go to your guidance councelor at school and tell them what you just told us. In fact just print it out and have them read it. Be sure to include the part about the beating. That's illegal, you know. They'll help you out, really.

Answer 5

i would really love to help u out. However i do not clearly understand what ure tryin to say. but yes, keep faith in god and everythin will b fine.