i have no idea what to do i miss him like crazy and to boot im 7 months prego wit his child and i have no way of getting a hold of him or seeing him HELP ME IM VERY CONFUSED!!!!!!!
2007-05-18 04:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im very sorry for you the only thing is to move on you have a huge responsibilty soon your child will be your priority you can do it on your own i did the right guy will be there might take a while but you will find one who take you and your baby and one and it will be great beleive me i know i have been there
2007-05-18 04:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Becky T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the downside of playing house and sex before marriage. You would be well advised to get an attorney ASAP and get the child support paperwork taken care of by the court. That way when the baby comes you will be able to devote 24/7 to caring for it and the child support checks will be there on a monthly basis for the next eighteen years.
2007-05-18 11:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he know you were pregnant when he left? Is that why he left? He owes you child support, for sure. You don't make it clear why you can't get ahold of him. Does he have a job? (call his place of employment). Does he have a family? (call his mother, sister, brother...someone...and tell them you are having his baby and need his financial support). Or get an attorney and have him found (through his social security number, etc).
2007-05-18 11:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to think about you....he probably has cold feet...it's messed up that he left you and you are pregnant with his child....but wait until he calls you if you cant get a hold of him....but that is strange....
Hope that I helped a little at least!!!!
Good Luck Mami!!!!
2007-05-18 11:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♡♥Poisonous Strawberry♥♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i think you should find someone that may know where he is like family or a really closes friend. I don t consider that a man if they leave someone who is having a baby, it shows that they aren t willing to take responsilblty.
2007-05-18 11:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can believe you have no way of contacting this person with all the new technology. Why would you want someone back that would leave you while you're pregnant?
2007-05-18 11:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling for yourself. A professional can help you sort out all of the issues & feelings that you're having.
2007-05-18 11:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by yowza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awful! Try talking to his family. While you're hunting him down, prepare to raise this child on your own. It's likely you'll be alone for this one.
2007-05-18 11:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked you to marry him and then left you, he is an a**hole. Let him go. You and the baby will be better off without him.
2007-05-18 11:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone love ya. but get a lawyer so he has to support his child.
2007-05-18 11:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by thelovebuzzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋