Do why big girls have a low self-esteem about they self ?

Answer 1

Not alot of people are into fat chicks and they feel rejected. I am not into fat chicks at all.

Answer 2

All so called "Big Girls" do not have low self esteem. There are just as many thin people who has low self esteem. Overweight does not equal unhappy. Self esteem is related to your self worth and your value. It doesn't matter what sex, age, height, or weight you are.

Society would consider me a Big Girl and the term doesn't offend me one bit because I am confident, attractive, sexy, have a great job, a husband, family, many friends, and I respect myself. I workout daily and take care of myself and I don't have a desire to ever be a size 4. I love my hips and curves. Your self esteem has nothing to do with the number on the scale but everything to do with how you feel about yourself. I love ME!

Answer 3

Having a very low self-esteem most of the time isn't healthy for a relationship. Just continue to tell her she's beautiful and show her that she is by telling her she looks good in her clothes. Also compliment her body. If she's thick like you say she is, then tell her how much you like her curves or her a$$. Make her feel sexy and beautiful. Give her more affections. Affection is more of an confirmation of how beautiful you think she is because sometimes hearing that she's beautiful All the time can seem as if it's false. so don't keep telling her every single day she's beautiful. SHOW HER AS WELL! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

I could go into a complete dissertation about this topic and the reasons, not just for overweight women, but average-sized and underweight women as well. The reason are wide and varied. Instead, I'll speak of myself.

I'm a plus-sized woman with a healthy dose of self-esteem. I didn't always though. I gained most of my weight suddenly due to my metabolism completely changing while I was pregnant 12 years ago. That was the start of gaining weight. I never really did much about it after I gave birth. So I continued to gain weight over the years. I hated how I looked. I hated myself for doing it to myself. This added to my depression didn't help me. As I've grown as a woman, I've accepted how I look and realized I'm a constant work in progress. No, I don't like how I look, but I am working to change that. It's what's inside that makes me beautiful and strong. That's what shines through to the outside and makes me attractive to others. I like who I am, in spite of all my flaws. People can criticize me because of my appearance, but I would rather be me than the people who criticize. I find that the people who criticize have more self-esteem issues than I do. There's something they hate about themselves, so they deal with it by putting down others. I feel sorry for them.

Answer 5

Because of society and the way we are treated by people in general. Society is brainwashing everyone into believing that beautiful only applies to 5'6", 125 lb people and that is not so at all. It isn't about the makeup, clothes, hairstyle, body size or numbers on the scale that makes up a person. It's what's on the inside.

It really t's me off because of the way we are made fun of by our schoolmates and people you meet in the store or on the street. We are treated as though we are less than others becuase of the size of our *** rather than taking the time to get to know us and seeing us for the size of our hearts.

And as far as the way most guys treat larger women - what a joke! But yet, let's turn it around, what if a man was overweight...would we laugh at him, belittle or degrade him by making comments, sneers and snide remarks? Hell no, we'd probably worship him as a wrestler or football player or give him an award for starring in a television show where he portrays an idiot. Come on people, why are we so shallow?!

Answer 6

I know plenty of "little" or skinny girls with low self esteem too. Its got to do with the person not the body. Maybe if jerks stopped judging the cover and actually appreciate the beauty from within we woudn't be having this discussion.

Answer 7

Different strokes, for different folks...some like them big, others like them small. Hollywood may be the blame for their low self esteem, all those skinny gross unhealthy looking actresses and actors. It is a shame, but one has to see through all the falseness. Many starve themselves just to stay fit or just to be IN or the A crowd, like Nicole Ritchie; a pencil had more meat on it! (a walking skeleton is not attractive). when you realize that you have to take care of of yourself, staying in shape is cool when eating correctly and oppose to not eating...exercising is really good, and loving yourself. Yes, loving, accepting and to be at peace with yourself is very important. Take some yoga classes and stretch and breathe the right way. And frankly too skinny or too fat is just unhealthy...and ugly.

Answer 8

im not a "big" chick
not that fat but i naturally have curves and huge thighs and *** and i know all this from some of my friends experiances
and the reason why they are so senesitive to it is becuse of many reasons
you get stared at and laughed at
you cant fit alot of the clothing and when you get somthign that fits it looks nasty.
there are videos all over the web that are called "thisation" or some CRap like that that just has picutes of thin or anorexic chicks for 5 minutes
guys genarally dont like big girls..
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Answer 9

Because they have such distorted images of themselves and because the social norm is not someone who is overweight. Unfortunately, society shuns and looks down upon overweight individuals, which is a shame because sometimes, weight is a genetic factor, and it's not the individual's fault that they look the way they do. However, I guess it's the fact that they feel that they will never find someone who loves them for who they are.

Answer 10

they are not big girls, they are beautiful ladies as all ladies. and the reason they have low self-esteem is because people call them fat girls or big girls.

Answer 11

Society brainwashes people into thinking that only beauty comes in bone thin females with breast implants.
Big girls are so disrespected in the work place, socially and by men & women in general.
We're a shallow country.