My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and we are quite happy and are even living together, we have sex all the time except when its that time of the month and I cant have sex, yesterday was one of them I wasn’t feeling too well and I was tired so I couldn’t even do anything with him.. that’s when he started touching himslef and started mastubating in the same bed I was with him. I didn’t say anything as I WAS ABSOLUTELY shocked…He has never done this before and although I understand that it can be hard for guys at times but is that something I should be worried about as I have never seen this happen before. I just obviously slep off in disbeleive…Is this normal???
2007-05-18 01:47:14 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Omg, he is cheating on you with his palm!
2007-05-18 01:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
Can he really not survive without s*x for even a week?? Its not impossible!! But u should be thankful that he's not bothering u and trying to get u to do it instead of him. And at least he's not going out and scr*wing some other girl either!! Its fine, leave him to it. Chances are he does it while your out anyway so what does it matter if your there or not. However, if it makes u feel uncomfortable, dont sufferin silence, ask him to go do it in another room. Hopefully he'll be kind enough to do that for u.
2007-05-18 06:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by only_lil_kez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal? Normal is pretty much impossible to define in a situation like this. Common? Actually, quite a lot of guys do this. Not all of them, but a lot. Most girlfriends understand. Some don't like it, and tell him to stop. I suspect that most don't care either way. The fact is that he is going to do it anyway. 90+% of guys do. Whether or not he does it when you are there is ultimately up to you, but if you really want to impress him, help him out!
2007-05-18 01:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uve been together 2 yrs and this is the first time this has happened? you two must have so much energy!
mine does it alot, well during the same time as you any way, i get pain in my elbows so he carries on, i like watching him,
he likes watching me, but i find myself under so much pressure i cant do it!!!
um, anyway, ts normal, do it at the same time as each other, you could even have a race, but you dont sound into that, so maybe teling him how you feel would be good, he obviously trusts you?
2007-05-20 15:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by darrens-girl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for your man.
What do you want him to do?At least hes masturbating and not going somewhere else to relieve himself.
Be glad that hes doing something ordinary as masturbating.He wanted to get your attention or maybe get you in some kind of mood to help him but that didn't work.
When your period is over then you do the same.He'll stare in amazement and it will turn him on.When hes just staring then jump on top of him and make love to him.
Next time when its that time of the month and hes masturbating then grab it and play with it and then give it back to him and say."Ok go ahead everything seems fine" and then talk to him like nothings wrong.
2007-05-18 02:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Snake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having your man masturbate in front of you is HOT!!!!! You should try being more open and accepting...but if it really bothers you then you should talk to him about it...but if he feels comfortable enough to do that with you there in the bed then I think that the two of you need to explore where your relationship is going because it seems that sexually you are not on the same page
2007-05-18 02:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you do it for him next time. Atleast you will feel as if you are part of the act too. When i was with my ex and i was on and didnt want sex thats what i would do, because atleast you are giving them some pleasure, even if its not what they really want.
2007-05-18 02:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Babes,
You have nothing to worry about, men masturbate, they need to re-leave themselves of sexual tension, it is very common and totally normal and means he is not doing it with any one else.
just because you have your period doesn't mean the end of your sex life, get him to give you a nice massage to help you to relax and then maybe you could help him out with a bit of hand play, that way every one is happy.
Good luck
2007-05-18 02:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by julie4018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, there are 2 other holes which can be used, secondly, he obviously is very comfortable around you so I would say that its OK unless you are uncomfortable with it
2007-05-18 01:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Tutto Bene 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal! You should be able to do anything like this in front of each other.
You should be glad he is so relaxed with you that he can do it in front of you.
Have some fun and experiment!
2007-05-18 01:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it really upset u then tell him. I under stand that u don't feel the best at that time of the month but perhaps there are other things u could do for him? Then he wouldn'thave to do it himself
2007-05-18 01:53:28 · answer #11 · answered by Agd 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋