2007-05-18 01:28:53 · 19 answers · asked by morenacairola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Morenacairola - Only you decide what is best for you but let me tell you my story. One night I was at a local night club with my girls and I ran into this guy that went to school with my sister. We were drinking an dancing and having a good time. Needless to say one thing led to another and we ended up back as his place. The next day I was so disappointed in my self. I had never done anything like that before but there was just something different about him. Five years later we are married and have two beautiful kids.
My answer to your question is use your best judgment. I say if it feels right - do it.
2007-05-18 01:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by poohbear76440 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares and loves u he won't push u to have sex at all the fact that its the first date should tell u something about this person if he is asking already. If he does dump him. He's not worth it. If u are a virgin, young lady believe me u are a prize and a gift. Don't let him have this gift if he doesn't deserve it, as for ur feelings u will get over them, he may not, but u will.
2007-05-18 08:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Momm-zie-poo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Do you know him? Remember you will be with EVERY one they have ever been with. It is NOT safe. Ask youself if you want another date. It does not depend on whether you have sex or not, if it does, do you want that kind of relationship. Are you worth more than an easy lay.
2007-05-18 08:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by SALSA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were a man, i would not trust a woman who gives me sex on the first date because i'll assume that is what she does each time a male friend invites her over for a date.
however, this is my opinion
2007-05-18 08:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is right to have sex on the first date without even giving it time to get to know eachother for a little while , i dont think men respect that because i feel that if women do that on thier first date , they dont respect themselves eiether,and the reltionship usually fizzles sooner , aslo you have to wrry about std, because you dont even know who he has been with , so be careful.
2007-05-18 08:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not okay to have sex on the frist day that makes it a one night stand and that puts a lable on u if so much have change
2007-05-18 08:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by New Yorker Girl 516 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do it but don't be surprised if there's no second date. If the guy is genuinely interested in getting to know you, he'll be willing to wait, otherwise he may be a "Find her, feel her, f*ck her and forget her" kind of guy.
2007-05-18 08:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have sex on the first date, the guy KNOWS you are easy, and wont see you much more--- except for sex!
2007-05-18 08:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
even though so much has changed it is still trampy slutish to ave sex on der first date
unless it one night stand
2007-05-18 08:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Emz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no...i dont think you should...u'l regret it later...
moreover,the attitude of a guy towards a girl changes after having sex...you have to be ready for a comittment before u do it..
2007-05-18 08:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋