HIV? OMG what a mess!?

Question

I can't believe what happened. I was at a strip club and recieved a private dance. One thing led to another she pulled my penus out and was rubbing. Then you continued the lapdance. I didn't realize but she put my penis in her vagina and was moving. It wsa sticking out of my jeans. Once I realized it I pushed her off. I asked her if it went in and she said it did but not all the way. OMG i am terrified. I told her after why did she do that if I didn't have a condom and she said it was just a little.

I am very very scared. Please help. Do you think I could have gotten HIV? I really need some help and advice. What should I do? What are the chances?

Only serious reponces please!

Please help!

Thanksss

Answer 1

If you do not want HIV then you shouldn't of been in a strip club in the first place.

It is hard to say, the only sure way is to get a blood test from you doctor.

Good luck

Answer 2

I am truly taken back by the fact that you didn't feel your unprotected penis slide into the vagina of a woman (which should be warm unless she is dead). How did you miss this?? But since you did, then it is possible that you may have contracted HIV or any other STD. And to correct some comments made previous to mine, she didn't have to be a stripper for you to contract an STD. It could be the sweet, quiet girl you have been trying to get with....meaning it could be ANYBODY!!! So if you have had unprotected sex before then you could ave given her something!
To address all the negative comments about strippers.....most are women just like other women who do not strip...they are students, mothers, and women just trying to make a living. You all should get off of your high horses and stop judging people you don't know.
And people wonder why intolerance is still prevalent in this day and age....
I hope this experience teaches you a lesson..and Good Luck on you tests...

Answer 3

The odds for HIV infection is low, possible but low. I would be more concerned about other possible STD's. If the dancer had an extremely high viral load and other STD's the risk is greater. female to male transmission is about the lowest risk, but unlike some have stated, there is still risk involved in male to female transmission. If there is another STD present, or cuts in the skin, which can happen in normal or forced sexual activities, there is greater risk. If you had seeked treatment or medical advise right after an event happens there is treatment to help prevent infection. It sounds like too much time has passed for that if you are writing in here, and FYI you could have been infected with just about anything just by the rubbing, you would not have had to enter her. Next time it would be smarter to stay home. Sounds like your local health department should also be contacted about these type of activities.

Answer 4

You should go to a doctor or health department for an HIV test. Most places will do them for free and/or anonymously. Sometimes the test will come back negative if you have only recently been infected...it takes your body some time to build up enough antibodies to the disease to yield a positive test result. If you think you could be infected, get tested now and then again in 3-6 months. Google health departments in your city/town to find a testing center. Good luck.

Answer 5

Its possible. You need to wait a while before it can be tested though.

The majority of HIV infections are acquired through unprotected sexual relations. Sexual transmission can occur when infected sexual secretions of one partner come into contact with the genital, oral, or rectal mucous membranes of another.

On top of this: many HIV-positive people are unaware that they are infected with the virus.

It sounds as though this woman made a regular habit of this little 'trick'..

You should see a doctor. But your probably fine- 90% safe

Answer 6

There is always a possibility that one could get HIV, it doesnt just have to be from a stripper. The only way to know for sure is to get an HIV test. The sooner the better, to ease your mind. Good luck!

Answer 7

this is how HIV is surpassed. All it takes is one time. i think of you would be able to desire to have a dying desire. A fool is fooling around with somebody you do no longer think of has a illness. An fool is individual who fools around with an contaminated individual. proper factor to do is flow to the ER. tell them you have been uncovered to HIV. they could prescribe anti-viral drugs to you. that's available to decrease your danger of it, yet i do no longer comprehend via ways plenty. that's what they provide docs whilst they have been pricked with a needle. enable's in basic terms say, you haven't any longer something to lose.

Answer 8

The possibility is definately there. Go see a doctor immediately and discuss it with your physician. You know, HIV is not the only STD you need to worry about, although it is the most deadly one. You need treatment started. In a way, it is a form of rape. You may want to talk to a lawyer, too.

Answer 9

It isn't rape if it's a lap dance, no one gives them for free and no stripper is going to "just do it" to you. She would have equal concerns regarding STDs. Your story is complete balderdash.

Get tested - and stay out of strip clubs. Saves stress and dollars.

Answer 10

you need to go get tested ! believe me she must have done this to thousands of men! she works in a strip club!! in the mean time don't have sex with anyone until you know for a fact you don't have aids! stay away from places like that, they breed AIDS!!