please help me i have this older cousin who acts/dresses/behaves like an emo and he always glares at me with wide eyes ive told my parnets but they just think he wanna talks to me (because our family had aa big fight last year) and im not sure which way he might be glarin/lookin at me!!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!!!
2007-05-17 07:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Please somebody help i dont know wat to do and i cant talk to him privatly cause ma familys always there and i dont even know if he wants to help me please guys help me and give me suggesions why he is always looking at me.
I dont even know why he is lookin at me in the first place i know that when we were young we used to hang around with eachother and use to regard eachother as friends(even though he is 1 year older than me) but he is always acting asd and depressed and always is listenin to his ipod.He is 16 and i am 15.
Thank you ever ssooo much:)
2007-05-18 07:34:05 · update #1
In a public setting - a calm public setting, ask him politely why he stares at you. Make sure your parents and/or close relatives are there as "witnesses."
Tell him politely that when he stares at you it makes you feel uneasy.
Tell him that you're sure he doesn't mean to appear angry or upset but that it makes you uncomfortable when he stares at you.
KEEP YOUR COOL at all times. Don't let him get you upset, but from his answer you can get an idea of what's on his mind. Always remain calm - and everyone around you will see that all you want is for him to stop staring at you.
Keeping your cool - even if he gets upset - will show you are more mature than even the adults in your family.
2007-05-17 07:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure he's not trying to kill you. but if your uncomfortable just avoid him.
2007-05-17 14:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by shabambam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋