2007-05-15 08:30:46 · 8 answers · asked by D 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
When I met my husband he didn't realize that his last g/f had given it to him and he passed it to me. Although it was bad the first few outbreaks, since I am otherwise healthy I have not had a problem with them, so it is not so much a life-altering thing like a lot of people make it out to be.
2007-05-15 08:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that I had had that choice with my husband. He didn't tell me for the first six months we were together. When he had outbreaks, he would lie to me and make me feel like I had done something to turn him off rather than telling me the truth. I was so stupid that I didn't realize what it was when I saw an outbreak on him. I thought he had dropped his razor and cut himself and I felt sorry for him. I stayed with him for awhile before breaking up with him for awhile. I was honest to other people I dated, but it did affect my dating life. Now, we are back together, but I can't help but hold that against him. He should have told me. I didn't even get the chance to make that choice. I don't know whether I have it or not because it can lay dormant for up to 17 years, and I havve not yet had any symptoms, other than oral, which maybe 90% of people have (I never had that before I met him either). I do harbor resentment against him for this, and I know that if he had been honest with me, it would have been better. In my present position, I would have more respect for someone who was honest about it and be more likely to trust them.
2007-05-15 09:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Clear as a Bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would beacause u said we both don`t have herpes
2007-05-20 05:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by quetta_boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is assuming the guy knows he has it.....If he told me upfront I'd probably stop seeing him because I don't think I'd ever be comfortable with it. If we dated for awhile before he told me, I'd break up with him for not telling me in the beginning....so I guess my answer is no.
2007-05-15 08:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by thankutomyfans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in judging people for their past. if they have it and are honest with me then we can have a normal sexual relationship by just using protection and being careful. Honesty is the key
2007-05-15 08:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2007-05-15 08:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mountain Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it....if you don't, what's the prob??? You say you both don't have it!!
2007-05-15 08:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Deb S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt
2007-05-15 08:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by LewyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋