My girl friend gave me some warts , she acts like its normal, she says....(well most girls have it), I say ur outta ur mind, now I feel like I have to stay with her cuz of these sick things, but i also think im ganna always be pissed off forever, what do you do in a situation like this?
2007-05-13 18:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
You shouldn't have to stay with anyone if you don't want to. If you are unhappy then leave.
Genital warts are not "normal" though. Not every girl out there has them. However, HPV is responsible for genital warts and HPV is VERY common. It's estimated about 75 - 80% of the WORLD will have HPV at some point in their life. And, most of those people have no idea they have it because the virus hardely ever shows any signs or symptoms. Most people find out they have the virus by either developing warts from it or having a pap smear come back abnormal (obviously this is only for girls).
There are over 120 differnet kinds of HPV; about 30 of them are sexually transmitted, but, only a few of those 30 kinds actually cause genital warts. Not everyone with HPV gets warts. A person has to have a kind of HPV that can cause warts in order for them to develop them. So, like I said before, most people don't know they have HPV because they don't develop warts. That is why HPV is one of the most common STDs out there. So many people are unaware they have the virus and they go spreading it around to others unknowingly.
If you find the warts replusive and hate the fact she has the virus and gave it to you then leave her. But, if you really care for her and love her then you can probably look past the warts and be with her.
My fiance (boyfriend at the time) still chose to date me and he knew I had HPV and genital herpes. He loved me and was able to look past the viruses I have.
It's your choice. Good luck!
2007-05-13 23:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First genital warts are not normal, however they are very common, they are usually caused by HPV. Your girlfriend is wrong for not telling you that she has warts, being that she thinks that this is a "normal thing", she is well aware of her condition. So first don't feel that you have to be with her because she gave you something that you didn't ask for. However if you feel that you can't let the fact go that she gave you warts, then it is probably best that you end it now, or your whole relationship will be a waste of time. However in her mind she really may believe that warts are normal, and if this is so, then you should leave her, because she may have something else. Also you may want to go get tested for other STD's and HIV to be on the safe side if you have not already..
Good Luck, and be happy even if it means being without her..
2007-05-17 13:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a situation like that but with a different std (herpes). Frankly bro if you wanna stay with her that's cool if not you can learn to live with it. HPV is getting easier because most girls are getting vaccinated for it anyway. The warts can be surgically removed and you can do things to keep them dormant. You'll still be able to have a sex life with other girls you just have to let them know first and be careful, I have that down to a science now. they're also several std dating sites where you can meet other girls with hpv so you don't have to worry to much. Here are some sites I have joined in case that's the route you choose. http://www.positivesingles.com/
http://www.afterh.com/
http://www.mpwh.net/herpes-dating-resources.sht
http://www.stdsoulmates.com/
They're alot more out there you just have to search. I am a firm believer in the shotgun effect I spread out as much as I can so I have a better chance of hitting one or many. Good luck I feel your pain I have been there myself.
2007-05-14 04:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well warts are an STD, and no are not normal. Warts can be spread by contacting such as sitting on a toilet seat as well, but also an STD. For women Warts could lead to cervical cancer so let your GF know that the are serious and should seek medical treatment.
2007-05-14 01:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that's really too bad. Ewwww. I can tell you...you aren't crazy....ISN'T normal. In fact, it's far from normal. It sounds like you've already got issues with her. I guess it just depends on how much you love her. Whether you do or not...forgive her for your OWN self.
Good luck. Keep in contact with a doctor...they are coming up with new medicines all the time.
2007-05-14 02:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats gross and no most girls dont have them only the nasty ones that dont protect themselves. Go to the doctor get it cleared up because herpes causes warts and there is no cure and i would leave that nasty ***** alone
2007-05-14 12:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by amelia_0405 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested. Then dump her for lying to you cause if she is lying now who knows how many times she has done it before.
2007-05-14 02:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Goobergirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is a nasty trashy h** that cheated on you and gave you something you cant get rid of I would dump her a** and let everyone know how nasty she is.
2007-05-17 21:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the beech and go to the doctor i head they can burn them off
2007-05-17 14:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by mocha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and tell everyone how dirty she is.
If she's gonna sit there and try to act dumb then call her *** out for the whore she is.
2007-05-14 01:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by iHEARTPiCKLES 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋