My girlfriend and I have been going out for 3 months now...not too long, but she doesn't talk to me like she used to. She can literally talk to everyone else in a room except for me. Whenever I do talk to her, she seems really bored and/or wants to do anything but talk to me. Im trying to do the best I can, but i do tend to become depressed over this, and i worry about it. She talks fine with me over IM or text messaging, but whenever i try to talk to her in person, she seems bored or anxious to do something else. Any advice?
2007-05-12 21:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by DistantG 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know seems she may be starting to not like you... maybe you are aggressive when you speak... sounds like you may be even a bit jealous.. try just relaxing and not worrying .... and I am sure she would be annoyed if you point out every time she is not talking to you... simple hint try ignoring her or not giving her so much importance and you will be amazed...
2007-05-12 21:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by je 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your jealous..admit it you are!! if you cant admit it your never gonna get rid of it...you dont like her talking to everyone else around you.. she is not ignoring you..you just go quiet and listen dont you?
she is having a good time and has lots too say to others because she always with you and has not as much to say new too you..
try to join in more or talk to one of the others let yourself go...
let her chat away not doing any harm she is still with you at the end of the day....
let her have some free time and you relax more and get some too...stop wondering what shes doing all the time...
it can turn too a illness and dont poh pooh it does!!
you wil drive her away.. do you want that? well do you?
get real its you with the problem act now be different!!
i know this was me years ago!!
if you need anymore straight advice ... you know where i am ok? its not good thinking your alone with it i know....
2007-05-12 22:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know excatly how you feel,ok this might doesnt sound pretty. but i think soon she's going to dump you. yeah thats right she will. because she isnt interest in you anymore.all what you can do now is try to NOT talk to her a lot. focus on other things in your life. school/gym etc.. try to have fun alone with your friends. because everyone needs some space. after that you and her will kinda miss each other and have something interesting to talk about. trust me man you dont wanna take the chance. DONT TAKE THE RISK! dont do what your doing now, try new things just like i told ya
2007-05-12 21:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, communication is the single most important thing in a relationship and you haven't got this with her, so it doesn't bode well.
She's acting bored in front of you, won't talk, only communicates with you via distance ...... awful that it sounds, you think you have to take the hint that she doesn't want to go out with you any more. She really ought to have the courage to telll you and this is the coward's way ... but she's obviously sending signals that this relationship is over.
2007-05-12 21:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your girlfriend is just a little insecure in the relationship and is worried about saying something wrong or something you disagree with try to reassure her that you think she is great and maybe she will start talking
2007-05-12 21:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by jacqueline b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least talk to her about it before just giving up or anything...it's possible she might actually be wanting to take the relationship to another level or something and you don't even know it.
2007-05-12 22:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by na n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to test you just try to show her who is the man around here if she doesnt improve then there is no point in having a girlfriend who doesnt talk to you.or you could sit down ans talk to her.
2007-05-12 21:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out on an exciting date, but word of advice I think you need to make sure she feels the same way about you that you feel for her.
2007-05-12 21:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb you are talking to much if you are talking on IM or txt you may not have anything interesting to say when you get together. tell her how you feel about it and say it worrys you.. if she is serious about you she will work it out. good luck..
2007-05-12 21:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by cinderella 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has had enough but darent break it off with you! i know cause i am going through the same thing at the moment - sorry to break it to you like that but best thing you can do is get rid before it goes any further :-)
good luck
2007-05-13 01:17:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋