Um... so i like this new guy and he really likes me, but I'm not sure if I fully like him the way he likes me yet. This may be because I don't know him that well, but it may also be because I like bouncy, bold boys while he's more shy (as in... he may not be my type but i'm not sure yet =/).
I feel kinda weird talking about lovey things with him, I don't know why. I trust him, and he's sweet and all that. I don't know, i think i'm just over-reacting because my other boyfriend I've known for a quarter of my life and this new guy i've only known for three or four months.
Uh... any suggestions or advice plz?? =/
2007-05-12 20:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for some of you... I don't even know if I wanna hug this guy... let alone sleep with him!! no more "just try him on for size" answers, plz, i'm only 15!!!
2007-05-12 20:33:44 · update #1
you must be around 16-17..... guessing ...... you've know your current BF since you where 12-13.
Is it true love. do you trust your bf. you say he's bouncy? what's that mean? Sounds kinda sketchy. I'd listen to the quite one for a while. Figure out if he makes you feel like how you want to feel. If your having to ask the question then you should probably dump your bouncy friend and test the field a little.
hang out with the quite one a little more or maybe others. see whats out there.
talk talk talk, explain how you feel, he's not a mind reader I'm guessing.
just take your time. do what feels right. If you like him you like him and it may be kinda nice to see where it could lead.
but remember (i'm 30 and have a little girl)
if your parents talk to you about this kinda stuff, they probably know what they're talking about.
Make sure he respects you enough for you to feel comfortable and remember you are all young and things will change.
He probably won't be around forever and might not be Mr. nice guy for long.
Thats ok, there's a lot more fishies out there to play with.
Just don't let him pressure you
condoms are great, unless it comes to herpes, not much can help that
2007-05-12 20:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Get to know him. You think you like him? Confirm that. Is he compatible with you? Is he not your type? These may be some of the questions buzzing in your head, and there's one answer for them all. If you get to know him, you'll not only discover more about him and see if he likes you of it he's the guy for you, but you'll discover more about yourself, and what kinds of guys you really prefer. You don't even have to become his friend. Just learn more about him.
2007-05-12 20:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, relax. Take your time getting to know him if that's what feels right. There's no saying you have to jump into something serious. Relationships are a process - not a solitary event. Take each day as it comes and be true to yourself.
2007-05-12 20:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jane D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys should go out..just the two of you and see how it feels!Maybe he just needs to be broken out of his shell!:)
Good Luck~
2007-05-12 20:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by that_model_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats crazy!??!?! im going the EXACT SAME situation!!!! omg evrything you just said im going through that, cept my old bf i knew for a yr...but besides that wow thats crazy i dont kno what to do either.....
2007-05-12 20:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ernesto M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking when you seem to have the answer?
2007-05-12 20:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL...JUST GIVE IT A TRY AND SEE HOW IT GOES FROM THERE...NO HARM TRYING ANYWAY...JUST BE CAREFULL OF STD
2007-05-12 20:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by VP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SUE BETTY YOU GO SLEEP WITH HIM,. TRY HIM FOR SIZE.
2007-05-12 20:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by faked z 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋