I have been going out with mu boyfriend for 2 months and im still confused if I like him. When im with him I know I like him by the feeling I get, how happy I am and how he makes me feel but when im not with him I get confused. Ive also been hurt in the past and dont see him very much so these could be reasons.
I want to fall SO in love with him, If I want it then will it happen?
Does it already sound like I like him?
2007-05-12 20:07:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being in a relationship means much more than you know. It's being able to communicate with each other. Caring about each other's needs. Not being selfish, having some of the same interests helps a lot. Two months is not enough time to know if you are good for each other. Ask him questions, like what are his values, his interests, what does he want in the future, what are his career plans. Tell him your values and interests see if they are the same. You can't know him unless you ask and he can't know you if you don't tell him about yourself.
2007-05-12 20:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u feel sooooo good about having him as a bf when you are not with him then that means u think about him all the time so u like him. And u said that u got hurt brfore so just becareful when and if u do decide to fall in love with him dont get hurt and make sure that he really likes u the same way u want to love him! hope this helps!
2007-05-13 03:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound exactly like my ex
(assuming you're talking about the same guy in the last question)
I didnt get to see her that much, but when i did all she wanted to do was have sex. Not like i could complain with anything like that, we ddi our thing for quite a while. My friend asked what she liked about me and her response was she liked me b/c she new she couldnt have me all the time....
i say be careful and dont "fall in love" right away...make sure hes into you as much as you're into him and figure out whats going on with with those feelings while he isnt around you
2007-05-13 03:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it sounds like you like him already. However, ask yourself if you'd do anything to be with him. And if you want to always be his. If you answer yes to both, then it just might be true love. True love doesn't necessarily have all the butterflies or the "crushing" feeling.
2007-05-13 03:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is a short time to really know if you love someone. love takes time to develope. i really hat it when i hear some one at school say i love you and they just hooked upo at the friday night game and they just made out before first period on monday. you may really like this guy, but give it some time, and you will know in your heart if he is the right one for you. REMEMBER LOVE TAKES TIME!!!
2007-05-13 03:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by screamer45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like how he makes you feel. You love how he makes you feel. If you really liked HIM, you would feel the same way when he was not around.
2007-05-13 03:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you fall in love you will definately know but i truthfully dont think you are because if you were you wouldnt have to question it..by the way love the name lol
2007-05-13 03:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by shina_ma_booboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you need a hobby. i never heard anyone say that they would like to fall in love with someone....it should come naturally or its not going to happen.
2007-05-13 03:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is not a long time to be sure
2007-05-13 03:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are merely sleep walking your caught up in the image of being in love that you have forgotten to step back and look at yourself and him confusion represents your fear of actually showing your true self
2007-05-13 03:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋