i know many will judge me but......i am in love with a married man. we met at work and we basically had an emotional affair for 9 months. he never told me he was married with two kids. he never even mentioned that he had a wife at all.
he flirted, called me, complimented me and everything. then all of a sudden he begins to act different... starts to ignore me and changes my office to a different floor. i left the whole situation alone, but recently i seen him at the mall and he was with a mutual friend of ours... he begins to follow behind me as i was walking out to my car... but when i noticed that he was, he stops and looks at me as if he was waiting for a response. since i didnt give him one... he walked in the opposite direction... why do you think he did that?
2007-05-12 19:58:19 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a disgusting excuse for a human being, that is why.
2007-05-12 20:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by JAN 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok this guy is kinda creepy if u ask me.....i mean he never told u he is married and let alone with kids...this guy is just using u (but mind u this is only my opinion)....he changes u to other floor becoz i think he got into some kinda trouble and maybe his friends told on his wife about his affair.....best is u do not show or give him the chance to get u....don't ever u go back to him...he pushed u aside and did not explain y...then u girl should not give him the chance to do that again...U be strong girl...and find someone else that is more worth your love...
2007-05-13 03:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks of you as 'easy.' He was hoping you would run to him with open arms. Here's what you do...RUN AWAY!
The guy played you for a fool so wise up and realize you are NOT in love with him, you were infatuated with him. He was never in love with you, he was in 'lust' of you. Now that he's made his conquest, he's moved on to newer conquests. Maybe he can't find any, or just seeing you made him remember how nice you felt and how great you smell. So what? He's married and a cheater. Don't waste another thought on him. Learn from a hard lesson and move on.
btw..I am a guy and married too.
2007-05-13 03:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was trying to tell you something...it's obvious he feels guilty, but it seems to have worked out all for the best. do you really want to destroy an entire family this way? now that you know he's married with a wife and 2 children, just leave him be..and let him work on fixing things in his marriage.
2007-05-13 03:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Elle M. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
From one who's been there, done that......he will NEVER leave his wife for you or anyone. Sure he'll love to flirt & he will want to feel desired by other women, but to him, it's just a game he likes to play. I feel sorry for his wife, who is probably frumpy & loyal who loves him, but he's just immature, selfish & totally inconsiderate. Ignore him, forget him & hold your head up & move on.....good luck!!!!
2007-05-13 03:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY!!! Heading for a heartache and you shouldn't be messing with a married man even if he is a jerk.
2007-05-13 03:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because he'd be willing to screw you, but he doesn't want it to seem like it's his idea. He wants to be able to feel like YOU seduced him. That way he doesn't have to feel responsible for want happens, and can ignore you again... after he's done.
2007-05-13 03:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by ***&&*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. I do know most married men don't leave there wives for the other woman.
2007-05-13 03:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jen G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his conscience got to him and he went home to his wife and kids.
I know that he didnt tell you, but now that you know, stop, don't ruin someone's life. Think of their children.
2007-05-13 03:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Calista 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's playin' you, darlin.' Playing mind-games with you. Letting you know that ........whatever babe,,,,,,whatever; it's up to you.....he's implying that if it's okay with you....it's okay with me. You know, see each other secretly, when it's convenient for him, [not you]. He's baiting you.
2007-05-13 03:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋