Um... so i like this new guy and he really likes me, but I'm not sure if I fully like him the way he likes me yet. This may be because I don't know him that well, but it may also be because I like bouncy, bold boys while he's more shy (as in... may not be my type).
I feel kinda weird talking about lovey things with him, I don't know why. I trust him, and he's sweet and all that. I don't know, i think i'm just over-reacting because my other boyfriend I've known for a quarter of my life and this new guy i've only known for three or four months.
Uh... any suggestions or advice plz?? =/
2007-05-12 19:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know some guys are good just as friends. maybe you and this guy are better of birng just friends, that way you can get to know each other better and then you can decided how you feel about each other.
P.S. i dont mean to sound like a parent.
2007-05-12 20:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by screamer45 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe it is just to early to know yet. The fact that he is shy doesnt mean he may not be your type, he may just need time to open up or he might just be friendship material. If you enjoy being with him then ride it out for a while by casually dating. If your affection for him grows, then you will know where you want it to go. Even though he is more into you doesnt mean you have to decide right now, he may just be moving too fast. My advice is to tell him you just want to be dating for right now and take it slow to see how it goes. Then you should date others as well if you feel like to see how he compares to others. Why not? If he still trys to go too fast, then maybe he is just trying to be in a relationship and is not worried about who it's with. Also, it wouldnt hurt to go out and meet more guys (or prospective future husbands) until you finally meet them, it will make the search go by a little quicker and will keep you from being in pointless relationships that will go nowhere.
2007-05-12 20:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by jasonolivo2181 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 18:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just roll with it and see what happenes. If he comes on too strong or too fast, ask him to slow things down. Give yourself a chance to sort out your feelings.
2007-05-12 19:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know you don't like him the way he likes you. That might change and it might not. Don't make him think you like him more than you do, that would not be fair to him.
2007-05-12 20:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you've got good instincts, go with 'em. if things seem... forced... back off for a bit... take it easy and go with the flow.
2007-05-12 19:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time...if you think it is a possibility then you will eventually warm up to him....
2007-05-12 19:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Barbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋