If you ask a guy if they think your ugly, just becuase you need a guys opinion and they answer your okay. What exactly did he mean by okay?
2007-05-12 18:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He meant that you were ugly
...or okay
...or maybe he doesn't really know what he meant, after all he's like 13 right?
M
2007-05-12 18:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it meant that he thinks you're just that. Most of the time when I guy says that, it's because he personally isn't interested in you or see you more as a friend. He's probably trying to not give the wrong impression by giving an answer that might get you to approach him more. Yes I know you have no interest in him, you were just seeking an opinion, but to the guy, he might think it's weird. But don't think it's bad or anything. A lot of guys tell their fellow female friends that they're 'okay' because they see the goods and bads of you. So they may not just be using your looks to decide his answer but the overall factors and balancing them all out.
2007-05-13 02:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone judges themself in the way they think they look. I think this has to do more about how you feel about yourself on the inside than how you look on the outside. Even if you think your just average looking, by asking a guy this question is about the same as asking him do you think these pants make me look fat! If they say something that might unintentionally hurt your feelings there could be conflict. If they say you look great they might be thinking your trying to hit on them. Either way your putting them in a catch 22. If you have to ask this question you might try it out this way....hey Steve, what kind of a guy do you think would be interested in me? If your around some people then ask him, do you see me going out with any of those type of guys? If they look like a bunch of losers and he says something like... ya, you would probably fit right in with them. You know what your answer would be after that!!
2007-05-13 02:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lifecoach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's in the "Does my bum look big in this?" class...
Most unreasonable and impossible!
What he meant by "OK" was "That's an unfair question."
If he says "Yes", he's cruel and risks a reaction.
If he says "No, you're beautiful" he knows you may not trust the answer and consider him dishonest,
or he'll feel trapped into asserting an attraction he doesn't feel, out of politeness.
It took me years to work out the right answer to "Does my bum look big in this?". I'm not sure there is a good answer to your question. "Ugly's interesting" doesn't do it...
2007-05-13 02:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Pedestal 42 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a nice way of saying you're ugly.
face it, you put him on the spot and hes not going to call you ugly to your face. leave the poor guy alone =(
2007-05-13 01:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your like a 8 or a 7 out of 10 but that's still good that mean you have potinal to be better
2007-05-13 01:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by datblackdude_101 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on if he was your friend or not..
if he was a friend he isnt going to tell you that you have a face only a mother could love...hes your friend he dosnt wanna hurt your feelings.
if he wasnt your friend then I agree a 7 or an 8
2007-05-13 02:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Seth G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask another guy if I was ugly.
2007-05-13 02:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Burn It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think having a beautifully mind is most important whether what the guy says, perhaps he mean that you are not ugly in his mind, perhaps not ,but is his option not yourselves , believe yourself,
2007-05-13 02:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you woulld ask me, I'd say you're looking good if you really look good. I'd say look again in the mirror if you need to fix something in yourself or let me fix it
2007-05-13 02:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by genfao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋