They said, "When you turn sixteen, then you can start dating",but now it's seventeen. I don't know what to do. I finally found someone that I truly like maybe love, but I haven't gone out with him yet. We've been together like for three months now and all I have been communicating with him is either by phone or at school (not to mention that we do not have any classes together) I'm suprise that he's still with me! Trust me I am a good kid and do most of my responsibilities maybe way more than some kids actually do. It's just that my parents are over protective. I just wish they cold seee how happy I am to be with him and me wanting my space. I don't have any girl friends, because they seem to be backstabbers with every one I tried out, so if I my boyfriend isn't just a boyfriend but a true blue friend then they should see how good he is to me instead seeking out something negative about him. It's mainly my stepfather who is all negative. With him, I rarely get to use the phone.
2007-05-12 18:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on how safe it is outside and how your guardians (parents) feel about you dating, you are not an adult YET
2007-05-12 18:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel your pain. Ask your Mom "What about that 16-year old promise??" If you can talk to her, tell her everything that you wrote. If you're afraid of your stepfather, just sneak around till you're 18. Then you can do whatever you want. I hope your boyfriend knows everything you wrote. He should. Maybe he could come over and talk to your parents. If your father has an anger management or alcohol problem, then your Mom is probably afraid of him. He could be verbally or even physically abusing her. Watch out for these things. You poor thing. You're lucky you have your boyfriend. He sounds like a great guy. Tell him everything. If your stepfather is abusing your Mom-even just emotionally- you call the police.
2007-05-13 02:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit down and talk to your parents. I'm not allowed to date yet either. if all else fails, just keep going out with him, when you DO get to date, it will be totally worth while.
2007-05-13 02:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you talk to your parents?
2007-05-13 01:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sucks don't do it. your friends will stab you in the back
2007-05-13 01:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in school young lady!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-13 02:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dongfeng!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋