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Does this bother anyone else but me? You know, when you ask a question and someone will spend half of their response going over the things you should have done, or how you shouldn't be doing something in the first place to be asking the question. Isn't that just imposing your own beliefs instead of answering the question? Does it even really matter your reasoning behind the question? Is that really their business? Honestly I get some kind of comment like that with every question I ask. It doesn't help me and it usually is someone pointing out something I obviously already know. I know people mean well, but It'd be like asking for advice on how to pull an all nighter. You really want some tips, and then you get a response with something along the lines of "well you should have studied more earlier on" well obviously you know that. You know what I mean?

2007-05-12 18:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

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I haven't yet asked a question yet myself, but I get really annoyed when people say those sorts of things in response to other people's questions. The worst is when they comment on something that can't be done differently because it's in the past!

I think answerers should stick to answering the question asked. If they don't like what they read, they really don't have to answer.

2007-05-12 18:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by flankerji 4 · 0 0

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2016-09-05 18:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by brang 4 · 0 0

In the future, you can say something in your question like "I know that I should have studied earlier, so you don't need to tell me that." I have done that in questions where I could forsee potential problems like that.

Nothing here on Answers really bothers me, because there are a LOT of trolls and people who don't leave any meaningful answers.

2007-05-12 18:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by jellybeanchick 7 · 0 0

Why do you ask for advice when you don't want it,but only want to start a conversation.

If you talk to men,they will always home in and give advice to correct your stiuation
Women will commisserate (go along with your thinking) and say why things are so bad and you are hard done by, and some will take holy-er than thou attitude to show how good they think they are..

So do you really want to ask a question and follow the answer, or are you looking for confirmation of your thoughts

Most women want confirmation of thoughs, not answers...how about you?

2007-05-12 18:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by bob shark 7 · 0 1

I totally know what you mean and I agree that sometimes, people need to just answer the question and stop the lecture!

For example, I asked a question about how to get my bunny to stop chewing on things, and someone told me that I shouldn't have an animal like that as a pet. That didn't answer my question. Oy!

2007-05-12 18:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Whooosh! 4 · 0 0

It doesn't really bother me because it is good to hear all different points of view even if people are sometimes rude and mean. Some people ask the most ridiculous questions and sometimes it is good that pepole are blunt with them because they couldn't come up with the solution on their own.

2007-05-12 18:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0 0

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