is this normall for girls?

Question

is it normall for girls to care so much bout the first kiss in a relation ship i mean we were at the movies the perfect places at least for guys but she siad no and then we were at the bleachers picture perfect momet but no so is she just wierd or ya

is it normall for there friends to bug you bout it like tell you were and when

Answer 1

No it's not weird,

u have to try to understand that we ladies like to be romance at times and when it's the first kiss we like for it to be a memorable moment she just wants it to be at the right time and place so when she goes back to that time it's something that will make her smile.

It may not really mean that much to u but she wants it to mean something to her. Plus when she remember the kiss with a smile that means she'll remember u with a smile =-)

Why? because maybe it's her fist kiss and thats one of the things that important

Answer 2

well... I would say your girlfriend isn't werid. With our first love, its like our dream come true in one moment and it makes a great memory for the relationship down the road, but that the first love. Maybe in your relationship, she doesn't care as much becuase she sees the bigger picture of a realtionship than one small kiss. And even then if you mess up, you can always laugh about it. There will other great kissing moments. =)

Answer 3

oh yeah its normal take it from me. i havent yet given away my first kiss. i'm saving it until the best possible time. i think that you will just have to be patient and make her fall in love w/ you. it could take a few days or a week maybe even a month. just dont keep pushing it or she will pull away from you. let her move at her own pace. girls really like it when you dont make them do something that they are not ready for. give her some space.

Answer 4

Guy, don't sweat it. Let her kiss you first, then it will be 'perfect' for her. If it takes too long, then you will realize that you probably picked the wrong one and move on. You are young and you will be 'kissing' a whole lot of females, before you check out!

Answer 5

well, i understand about the movie theater. i HATE movie theater kissing. im there to watch the movie and if it happens to be with a cute guy and his arm around me with my head on his shoulders AWESOME : ) but i dont want a make out session.

but seriously, the bleachers is definitely perfect. she might be shy, it could be her very first kiss. so if you like her, keep on trying but respect her judgment. shell let you know when the time is right.

Answer 6

Did she actually SAY she cared about the first kiss? She's probably just not ready for it yet. Give her time.

Answer 7

Girls plan out everything and it tends to have to be just as they've imagined it or it has all gone wrong. Probably comes from all of the scenarios they invent while playing with their dolls growing up.

Answer 8

That is way weird. It sounds like to me she doesn't want to kiss you or has kissing problems. If you two are dating it really shouldn't matter where you kiss just as long as you have fun together!

Answer 9

Women are more emotional based than men. Men are more logical based than women.
Welcome to your first taste of how it is to be with women...oh, and it gets worse over time...wait until the first child comes along and you don't coo and pay attention to EVERY "Honey! look at our baby! Isn't it cute!"
The fun part is that you don't ever get used to it...yeah, I said, "fun" :-/

Answer 10

depends on the girl, some girls will dump you if you rush the first kiss, honestly!!!

so i would just wait until she leads it on