Ben, a very hot funny cool guy, who is my boyfriend, went out with out my bf two months ago. Should I brake up with him? or since he is perfect should I keep going out with him? P.s. He says all the right things and truly loves me.
2007-05-12 17:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't break up with him just because of that, unless it might ruin your relationship with your best friend. Friends come first, but of course, if she is truly a best friend, she won't care and want you just to be happy.
2007-05-12 17:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by LadeeBug Buddha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your best friend know that you're dating him? If she's your best friend, I'd assume she does, especially since you're calling him your boyfriend. So long as you get her blessing, go right on ahead and keep the relationship going. If she doesn't give her blessing though, you need to weigh how important the friendship is to how important the relationship is. There is that sort of unspoken rule amongst girl friends where you don't date another's ex, but it really depends on the situation (how long they dated, how serious they were, etc.) 95% of the time, if she doesn't approve of your new relationship, I'd choose an old friendship over a new relationship.
2007-05-13 00:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by marie25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guy are , going or all ready right, your question is shoud you say with him because he dated your BF...I say keep him if you like him and there is no real problem why worry about what is in the past...good luck
2007-05-13 00:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should be Friends only cause to date a BEST friends x is way wrong. even if she says she is okay with it, u know she really isn't so, i would break it off!
2007-05-13 00:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lil :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your friend is okay with it. If she feels uncomfortable, then you should tell him that you really like him, but it just can't work right now. If he really does love you, then he will understand.
2007-05-13 00:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask if you should break up then you say he's perfect. You're confused. Make up your own mind.
2007-05-13 00:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he date your friend while he was dating you? If so later to Ben. If not let him score....
2007-05-13 00:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course why not this is your own mind u should if u like him and u do tat your self not your best friend he probably doesnt not like that girl anymore u know
2007-05-13 00:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with this situation. Absolutely, you should go out with him, if your compatible and enjoy being with each other.
2007-05-13 00:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bestfriend is not okay with you should talk to her. If she still isn't okay with it, brake up.
2007-05-13 00:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Pilot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋