I am 15 and my mom doesn't know my babysitter who is 16 is my boyfriend, well last month he came for a night and we made out and got naked, now he wants to have sex (with protection) and I want to but I am not sure about it. He is coming in an hour and i don't know what to say. HELP!! I really like him and we have known each other for 7 years and we make out like every day and i have seen him naked and he's seen me naked.
2007-05-12 16:47:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
about the one year older thing, My mom called an agency and thinks he is 19 and my mom is really protective so i might have a babysitter till i am 17
2007-05-12 16:56:10 · update #1
Your mother hired a baby sitter that is one year older than you and you're 15? I'm sorry, I'm not buying it. I have an idea, ask a question about something that's for real.
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2007-05-12 16:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by M00ND0CT0R 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why your mom would get a 16 year old to babysit a 15 year old, if your younger then 15 then please eally think about what your doing. Also realize that if he has known you and your family for 7 years then your mom obviously trusts him and getting physical with you I am willing to bet is not what your mom has in mind when he watches you. But seriously the whole 16 year old babysitter for a 15 year old seems very suspicious and weird to me.
2007-05-12 16:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by zombiez8me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 with a babysitter? And this "babysitter" is only 16? What kind of parents do you have anyways?
15 is too young, when you are 25 you'll probably regret it.
2007-05-12 16:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Rick W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. let's see,
You are a 15 year old girl and your "baby" sitter is a 16 year old guy.. and your mom approves of this. As if!
Yeah, right! I can't believe you dumasses fall for this shite and actually answer these questions...
And Jr.... quit beating off in front of the computer and go to bed. It's past your bedtime!
Edit: Oh... Your mom thinks he is 19. THAT'S EVEN WORSE! You're not an effective troll if you can't think of anything better than this. Or your mom is even more retarded than YOU are!
2007-05-12 16:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kia A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you , if you have a babysitter at 15 somethiing is
wrong there. and the fact that you lying to your parents, it
not cool either. i cant tell you what is the good time for you
but i feel that you should be a lot older, because likeing
someone is a different the being in love and if you going
to give something special it should be with someone that
you love dont you think.
2007-05-12 16:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow u got life in ur hand i say wait ur like YOUNG and trust me sex is not everything talk 2 him tell him u r not ready yet give u more time and further sex b4 marriage is called fornication b4 God.
Do ur mom pay this guy r do u jus wanted 2 know if u can have sex at that age?
2007-05-12 16:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl save it for when your out of school. If you end up pregnant and protection is not 100% you will have ruined what you are working the past years in school for. Enjoy the time with him but maybe that should be a graduation present to both of you? Be careful
2007-05-12 16:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what? I lost my virginity at 14 years old turning 15 and i dont regret it at all now. im not saying it was some magical thing and i ended up marrying him and living happily ever after.. we actually dont see each other at all. and I wasnt a slut at all when i was that age i just matured alot quicker. Like by the time i was 12 i already thought alot deeper then others and it wasnt all about me and i wasnt self centered at all i was younger then the highschool students but i was smart enough to keep up with them. and the guy i lost my virginity to was 16 and i was 14 and we had been dating for awhile. but do what you feel comfortable with and dont listen to what anyone else says. its our life and you have the right to live it your way (to SOME extent)
2007-05-12 17:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sarah♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it because it feels right. but if it doesn't don't. your virginity isn't something you can get back. don't just do it because he wants to.
and if you're 15, why do you need a babysitter who is only 16. weird.
anyway, think hard....15 is very young. you have to be prepared for any consequences that may result.
2007-05-12 16:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by mojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your mom makes you have a babysitter at 15, it probably means you are immature, and therefore you are not ready to lose your virginity.
2007-05-14 16:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by lovely_marielin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow your totally too young... tell him your just not ready yet... wait a while till you are and then decide. Sounds like hes just a guy who wants to get in your pants... DONT FALL FOR THE TRICKS BABE! If he doesn't like the fact that you dont want to, then he is seriously just doing it for the sex. TOTALLY NOT WORTH YOUR TIME AND wasting your virginity on some guy your not sure about. I would also confess to your parents that hes ur bf... its the right thing to do.. hope you take my advice seriously and do the right thing.
2007-05-12 16:52:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋