You're not a liar unless you lie. You're not an athlete unless you play sports. You're not a murderer unless you murder. Your not a teacher unless you teach. soo, you're not a homosexual unless you commit homosexual acts. All of these involve choice.
However you don't have to have sex to be a heterosexual, because that's is the way ALL humans are born, and that is how we reproduce. We are all drawn to the opposite sex, unless somewhere in our lives, our view of things had been perverted or distorted and what you saw of a relationship between a man and a woman wasn't what it was supposed to be. Any thoughts?
2007-05-12 16:28:51 · 21 answers · asked by carriespnc 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
So is somebody who's not actively engaged in sex neither homo- nor hetero-sexual? I think there's more to it.
2007-05-12 16:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You logic is faulty. If you don't have to do heterosexual acts to be a heterosexual, then you don't have to do homosexual acts to be a homosexual. You assert that we are all born heterosexual, but you have no proof. Also, you assert that we are all drawn to the opposite sex unless something has been distorted. Again, this is an unsubstantiated assertion. Why can't you just accept that some people are different? Homosexuality occurs in the animal kingdom, too. Did the animals view things that had been perverted or that had been distorted?
2007-05-12 23:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you are ridiculously misinformed. you should read up a little on scientific discoveries of some humans containing an extra chromosome...these humans are almost always homosexual.
and yes...not all homosexuals have an extra chromosome. so what of this? who cares? why not live and let live? one of my best friends is gay and he once told me that he would give anything some days not to be, that it's a very difficult thing to live with sometimes.
i am delighted you are heterosexual, so am i. that doesn't mean, however that you have the right to call out and try to corner people on their sexual preferences.
and by the way...most homosexuals know they want same sex partners WAY before they actually have them. most know from the time they are very little.
just because you've acted unintelligently doesn't make you a moron forever.
in most cases.
2007-05-12 23:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're not an eater until you eat. What exactly is the point you think you have? Even if homosexuality IS a "choice," which no reasonable person actually believes, what business is it of yours what other people choose to do? Nobody cares whether you think it's congenital or learned behavior, or what you consider to be "natural." Consensual acts between adults do NOT concern you unless you're one of the adults.
You're simply putting forth a "perverted and distorted view of things" to justify your own petty bigotry.
2007-05-12 23:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think that you dont have to commit homosexual acts to be homosexual because it isnt just about sex. there is a relationship an attraction involved just like in a heterosexual relationship. I also dont believe being homosexual is a choice. If you were beaten up, made fun of, and abandoned by friends and family you would come to the point where you just would want to change yourself, but you cant because it isnt n your control
2007-05-12 23:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality Is having sexual thoughts or an actual physical act of sex with a person of the same sex. Don't let the homosexual agenda fool you into thinking any other way.
But don't forget also that God loves them to and that he wants them to turn from there sinful nature and repent. Treat them as any
other person do not treat them meanly.
God bless
2007-05-13 00:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are certain people that believe by just thinking about something sinful is as good as committing the act itself. Do I agree with that, probably not. Your argument was good until you threw your opinion in and said that homosexuality was a result of perversion or distortion of sexual attraction.
2007-05-12 23:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to dissapoint you, but not all humans are born heterosexual. You can go thinking oh it doesn't happen, you can't be born homosexual, i can assure it it does. The side of us that is drawn to the opposite sex is our primal side. The human nature side is responsible for the rest. Your brain is wired to be attracted to men, so you go find a man. But another mans mind is wired to like men, so they go find a man as well.
I would love to know your opinion on transexuals.....
2007-05-12 23:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lifeless Energy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts:
No, not ALL humans are born heterosexual. Some are born homosexual.
End of story.
Please, go get a glimpse of the outside world before you start acting like you're an expert on it.
2007-05-12 23:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your logic is flawed. Homosexuality doesn't necessarily mean that you commit the acts, but that you feel attracted to the members of your own sex instead of the opposite. I don't know if that's what you're trying to say; I can't understand what you're trying to convey.
Your details are almost incoherent. Please cut the tl;dr and get to the point.
2007-05-12 23:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by saintmeghan 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My thoughts are that you are wrong.
I know gay men and women who talk about how they made choices as very young children (playing with dolls, not likeing dresses - etc) in regard to their sexuality. And their Mom's and Dad's had great relationships with each other - and still do. And now those gay people have great relationships with their partners - and their loving parents accept them and all is well. Sounds like a nice place to be.
Your world of perversion preaching, judgement, and self-righteousness - well - it doesn't sound like a very nice place to be. Hope you get out of their soon!!
Those are my thoughts.
Namaste!!
2007-05-12 23:37:44 · answer #11 · answered by liddabet 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋